I've never used doggie diapers...are you using them for a heat cycle or incontinence?
IMO, I would think the other dog would probably take them off, if not the dog wearing it.
IDK.

Kat

 

So far the only thing that has worked for me is constant supervision. Luckily my female doesn't mind wearing her diaper, but the others will try to take it off. I have gotten after my male for trying to take it off, and that seemed to have help a bit. When shes in heat, she doesn't leave my site, so it's fairly easy for me to monitor everyone.

 

WARNING: For those with a weak stomach, this post contains gross details.

I'm using them for her heat cycle. Both of my male dogs are neutered. After reading there's a 15% chance of incontinence after spaying, we decided to deal with heat twice a year instead of taking the chance of a leaky bladder every day. We got a different diaper that fits better from our local pet store, but now she's pushing it aside and ripping the bloody pad apart. Also, when she lays on her side the blood leaks out. This whole thing is turning out to be a lot more complicated than we thought it would be. Xena is now spending most of her time in the backyard with one of us or inside in her crate. There has to be something that works. HELP!! lol

 

There's a lot bigger chance of her getting a pyo (infection of the uterus) than getting incontinent. Also bigger chance of mammary tumors (cancer).
Combined with the issues you're having now with the bleeding, if I were you I'd opt for a spay :shrug:

 

Agreed!!

I don't know where you got the 15% figure from, but there's no way that 15% of females become incontinent because of a spay. It might be 1.5%. I personally have seen zero cases.

Pyometra is what scares me the most. I have seen a number of older intact bitches come in with pyo, which can be fatal.

 

How often are you changing the pads? I would change them after every pee break if she's bleeding really heavy. As for going after the pads, all I can recommend is give her praise when she's not going after them, and change them often enough that she won't want to. If you need to crate her, take the diaper off and give her a chance to clean herself, that's what I do and it seems to keep my girl happy. I agree with msvette2u, the risk of getting incontinent is way lower than the risk of pyo, and pyo is almost always deadly.

 

How often are you changing the pads? I would change them after every pee break if she's bleeding really heavy.

I've been changing them every time. She rips them apart, then licks herself. Poor thing I know she's just trying to clean herself. What we really need to do is get rid of our carpet and have laminate or vinyl flooring installed. Hopefully we will have a big enough tax refund next year to do it. Then we can get one of those robot vacuums and watch the dogs follow it around and bark at it.

 

Another reason we decided not to spay...daily incontinence and carpet don't mix. If she becomes incontinent, trying to keep a diaper on her all the time would be much worse than a couple of weeks twice a year. Do they make plastic pants for dogs similar to those used on babies over cloth diapers? I can keep her away from my other dogs when in the house, but I need to keep her from being able to remove the diaper or chew up the pad.

 

My GSD was a shelter dog. The shelter vet spayed her, but did not get everything. She had to be re-spayed a few years later, after exploratory surgery revealed the problem.

In spite of "both" spays, my girl NEVER had bladder incontinence. She lived for 14.5 years. Now, the last few years of her life, my girl had DM. She started having poo accidents, because she did not know she had to go.

Any senior dog may be likely to have incontinence issues of one kind or another - not related to being spayed. I hope you are prepared for old age.

 

Isn't pyo an infection dogs get from mating? Can I avoid this by either getting my neutered males tested to make sure they don't have it or keeping them from mating?

 

No, it's not just caused from mating and they can get it at any age. Mine had it at 3 & 1/2 years...almost lost her.


Pyometra - Dogs | Thickening of the Uterus | petMD


On the other note, my females live inside. During their heat cycles, they are very clean. They'll clean themselves a lot... I don't know if it's instinct or they don't like their area ' dirty'. I've never used diapers though.
(If I didn't pay close attention, I wouldn't even know if they had their cycle.)

Usually, the only time I might see a couple of drops of blood is after they've been laying down and first get up. It's generally not much and easy to wipe up.

This is just been my experience.

 

I haven't seen plastic pants made for dogs, so I'm not sure on that one. If you could find a cloth diaper cover big enough for her and cut a tail hole in it, that might work.

Pyo is an infection they can get in the uterus when bacteria get's in there during/after a heat. It gets trapped when the cervix closes, so the uterus swells up with pus, and is very deadly, with little to no signs of infection until its too late. I would go and Google it to get familiar with it. It can and usually happens by itself, with no mating.

 

So you don't put diapers on them at all? I'm always worrying about anything liquid (blood, urine, etc) soaking into my carpet and the pad underneath.

 

No, never have used a diaper.
IMO, She probably is trying to clean herself. I Was amazed at how clean my females are. All of them were that way.
If I put a diaper on any of them, they'd rip it off to get 'there' and lick themselves.

For me, the few drops I see are usually just after she's rested and they land on the top of a surface...I've never had a 'soaking'. I just watch them when they first get up and use Clorox wipes .
If it was to get in the carpet a little, you could clean it with a soapy washcloth... or whatever you'd do if you cut your finger and bled a little on the carpet. JMO.

 

Once you get your carpet removed, she should be just fine without a diaper if your males are neutered. I need to use a diaper on my girl because my male is intact so it's my back up even though she's always with me. I'm just lucky that she doesn't mind it. It's a pink diaper so it looks cute on her (make's it worth the work). If this is your females first heat, the next one should be much lighter (In my experience anyway).

While you have carpet, laying down a rug or a bed like N Smith is a great idea, or/and bring her crate into the main living area and give her lots of chews, so she still feels like she's with you guys and can keep herself clean. I did that for my females first heat and she definitely didn't mine the abundance of bones and bully sticks.

 

Any senior dog may be likely to have incontinence issues of one kind or another - not related to being spayed. I hope you are prepared for old age.

This is true. We have 3 senior girls here, all spayed, no incontinence.
The OP has small kids (or at least one, I believe) which would further increase the need to keep things somewhat tidy(?).

Another issue you may not have thought of, is your neutered males can tie with her, increasing the risk for injury as well, to one or both dogs should that occur.
Not to mention all the neighborhood boys who are going to be gravitating to your home when she's in heat.

one of the ladies that works there told me her dog became incontinent after being spayed

Pretty rare, still.
Tons of us on here have spayed girls not incontinent.