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Crate Training not going well!

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#1 ·
Hello,
How long does crate training take? I’m so sleep deprived it’s affecting everything.

We have a 14 wk puppy that hates her crate. She had 2 wks of crate training at 8-10 wks before we brought her home. She would fuss for about 20 min then settle in and sleep 6-7 hours before I would wake her up to go out to pee. Last week was great. For about 5 nights she was barely making a whimper starting out the night and sleeping through till I got her up. But last night was awful! We always take her outside for some exercise then practice commands or other brain games for a bit before outside for one last pee. Bedtime is always the same time. She fussed for a few minutes then fell asleep. Woke up at midnight and whined and barked for 45. She settled as fell asleep again only to start all over at 2:45am. She had peed and pooped right before bed so I knew she didn’t have to go. It had only been 4 hours. I finally had to wait for a break in the barking and let her out because my husband had to get up for work. She peed a tiny bit then ran around the house in the dark for an hour before conking out for 4 hours. I’m going crazy and have no idea what to try next to get her comfortable with her crate. It’s an xl crate with a divider. She acted the same when we had a smaller crate. The breeder said to let her cry it out if we know she’s done all her business.

We play a few crate games during the day. A few minutes of commands/ treats while in the kennel to give her confidence in it. Feeding her by hand through the crate when she’s quiet. We’ve tried covering the crate. Sitting next to it to reassure her but she just gets more upset because we’re not letting her out. White noise since our house is so quiet. Feeding her in her crate (in a long or bowl) but she’s so stubborn she won’t eat for hours, I’m assuming because she doesn’t want to go in it. Short sessions in the crate when we’re in the room, she freaks out as soon as she finishes her treat. Special treats only given in the crate like bully sticks. As soon as you step out of the room she stops chewing and starts barking. Putting a toy in with her but she doesn’t like toys.
Does anyone have any more suggestions?Is this normal during crate training? Do we just need to stick with it? I feel like 6 wks of training should have had more progress and not gone backwards.
Thank you!
 
#3 ·
She peed a tiny bit then ran around the house in the dark for an hour before conking out for 4 hours.
I don't understand this. When young pups need nighttime pee breaks it is out to pee and right back in the crate. No playing, no fussing. It sounds like you may have inadvertently trained her for nighttime play sessions.
 
#8 ·
Agree! potty breaks at night last for 180 seconds by the clock. Get up, outside on a LEASH. You stand still. Say "go potty" and don't move. Pup pees, or doesn't, but gets absolutely no playtime in the middle of the night, and can't roam beyond the constraints of the leash. If she pees, have a mini party, praise and treat but no play. After peeing, or 3 minutes MAX (by the clock), it's back into the crate. If she didn't pee, you'll likely be up again in 15 minutes, so repeat the process with NO PLAY WHATSOEVER. The pup needs to learn that in the middle of the night we get up to pee and then right back to bed and that's it. Nothing fun beyond that ever happens. If you maintain strict criteria and lots of structure you should be able to get this issue resolved within a small number of days with a new pup.
 
#7 ·
This.
Every pup I have ever had starts with the crate beside the bed. Helps them settle, they can hear your breathing, fingers through the crate if they fuss helps them settle even more. If one of you really needs the sleep, crate beside the couch and sleep there for a few weeks.

People still do it for their own reasons but pup in the kitchen/basement/downstairs doesn't work for me. You just took them away from their mother and all their littermates and expect them to settle in the kitchen for 6-8 hours ..... jmo
 
#6 ·
I think playing games that get her excited while in the crate is the issue.Keeping water in the crate and feeding in the crate,tossing a treat or toy inside in a matter of fact way is ok.Playing tug or anything that gets a puppy riled up is the opposite of chill out,which is what you want. As opposed to a fun play area.
 
#12 ·
That’s why I was ignoring her. The breeder that did the crate training said she was a very vocal puppy that really hates the crate. Now I understand what she meant. I never let her sleep past 7 hrs to try to prevent a UTI but I’ll get that checked just in case. Thank you!
 
#23 ·
The first week with Meisha was crazy. She whined and barked when ever she had to go in her crate (mostly at night).

What we did at night was cover the top and three sides with a blanket and put the TV on with white noise either a rain storm or ocean waves. I also picked up a buddy puppy stuffed toy that had a heartbeat. Surprisingly it worked and she settled in at night with no issues after that. At almost 9 months she now loves her crate and when I say time to put the white noise on she goes right in, It is left open during the day so she can come and go as she pleases and even preferes that over the couch sometimes, but at night she is locked in she just can't be trusted not to chew on things yet.

I agree with other about about night time potty. Out for a few mintues and then back in the crate.

Good Luck.
 
#43 ·
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The first week with Meisha was crazy. She whined and barked when ever she had to go in her crate (mostly at night).

What we did at night was cover the top and three sides with a blanket and put the TV on with white noise either a rain storm or ocean waves. I also picked up a buddy puppy stuffed toy that had a heartbeat. Surprisingly it worked and she settled in at night with no issues after that. At almost 9 months she now loves her crate and when I say time to put the white noise on she goes right in, It is left open during the day so she can come and go as she pleases and even preferes that over the couch sometimes, but at night she is locked in she just can't be trusted not to chew on things yet.

I agree with other about about night time potty. Out for a few mintues and then back in the crate.

Good Luck.
covering it seems to help some. I thought about a stuffed puppy with a heartbeat. I just thought since she’s been without littermates for a 6 wks it wouldn’t be somethingthat would work. Maybe it still would. Our house it super quiet especially at night so I did start using some white noise at night. Which seemed to help a little. The kennel is always open and we encourage her in and out throughout the day with kibble. She does that well. Evengoing in it on her own sometimes and looks at us probably looking for a treat. But it’s a whole new ball game if the door is closed. Whether we are right next to the crate, in the same room or not. I just don’t know what to do anymore.
 
#24 ·
I think I’m perhaps the hardest here for crate training. Crate goes in the basement rec room furthest from any bedroom and with the most doors I can possibly close. I pickup water by 8pm, last potty is midnight and see you in the morning.

What struck me was this pup did at the breeders as well and I’m really hoping this isn’t a precursor to separation anxiety. Do you leave pup alone during the day on a regular basis? I wonder if this ia more about YOU being out of sight rather than her not liking crate.
 
#42 ·
How long did it take your pup to pick up on the routine and settle in?
That’s what I’m wondering. We aren’t gone in a regular basis yet. We do short sessions of daytime crating and leaving the room but that doesn’t go well either. Even with a bulky stick, once she realizes the door is shut she starts up barking whether someone is right next to her crate or not. I know it’s not good for her to be with us 24/7 and the crate should be a good tool for that. But it’s so hard because she barks so much. She’ll play the games and go in and out when we toss a piece of kibble in and tell her to kennel. Occasionally she even goes in and sits and looks at us. Probably looking for a treat. But if the door closes there is nothing that will keep her attention. I just don’t want to create an anxiety issue. Or worsen one if that truly what is going on. I just don’t know what to do.
 
#25 ·
Keep things calm an hour before bed tine. Crate next to your bed, tiny treat for the night. You take a deep breath and ignore everything she does and go to sleep. If you are a healthy adult, you should be able to put a protesting pup in her crate after luring etc is no longer working. Make sure her day is full filling with training, play and exercise so she has a reason to be tired at night. I have raised pups this way for the last 30 years and never lost sleep over it, nor did any of them develop separation anxiety. Once they were old enough to sleep in the living room after about 4 months, they were fully used to the crate in the living room and I switched them cold turkey without an issue.
 
#41 ·
Thank you for the specific tips. The current routine is not working so perhaps trying this is a good idea. We try to do something new everyday. New people, place, dog etc every day. Playtime and training/mental stimulation throughout the day. The last bit before bed is chill time with one last potty break right before bed. She goes in pretty well and gets a small dental biscuit. Sometimes she doesn’t make a sound and sleeps until I get her up in the morning. But most of the time she protests once her biscuit is done. But settles down after 20 min. And sleeps 6-7 hours. But lately she’s regressed and is waking up 2-3 times barking a ton. I ignore it and she goes back to sleep after 1/2 hr or more. I just thought by now she would have gotten the routine and stopped the barking. There were 5 glorious perfect consecutive nights. I thought we finally made it through. I saw hope. Then it went to waking more than ever. I can’t figure out why the sudden change nothing in our routine seems different. I’m just concerned that because she is still doing it, my ignoring her barking is creating or compounding an anxiety issue.
 
#28 · (Edited)
I agree crate in bedroom. Worked well when I picked up my puppy at 12 weeks. Since day 1 never an issue. Plus I was moving her crate in the morning into the kitchen. Now I have 2 crates cause I got sick of moving them around and she needed a large crate now. I kept the medium in the bedroom for now. Put some infant blankets in the crate with a mat in the crate. During the day I leave the crate door open and toss some treats in their at times. Plus I close the door at times if I need to do something without her being in the way. The few times she whines I ignore it and usually after under a minute she'll settle or I'll say in a firm voice "quiet" then I ignore her. But just like kids each pup is different. You can slowly move the crate away from the bedroom as the dog ages if you don't want the dog in your room. I may try just a bed mattress for her soon as long as she's not getting up roaming around in the bedroom when I'm trying to sleep. One night she made noise and she at times just slumps down in the crate which makes a rattle if she does it more than 3 times I turn over and say knock it off and she stops. Once again in a firm voice. Also I don't give her food/water 2 hours before bedtime. I stopped getting up every 2-3 hours with her around the 3 month mark. If she needs to go badly she can bark or whine and never had a night time accident. Plus at night when I would take her out I never talked to her. It was straight business. I took her out for potty then back into my bedroom maybe the odd time saying "bed".
 
#38 ·
Maybe I should try sleeping next to her. Being next to her with the door closed seems to agitate her more. But I’ve never done a whole night. Maybe it’s worth a try. We’re working on daytime crating. She’s almost worse. She just started biting the wire even though she has a bully stick and chew toy. I sprayed it with that bitter spray to try to not let that become a bad habit. She eats about 2 hours before bed. If we can get her to eat. We only feed her in the kennel and she seems to hate it so much she won’t go in it to eat. I feel bad taking water away. She is so thirsty when she gets up. Idk if she’s just thirsty or it’s some kind of anxiety coping thing. But maybe if it isn’t working after 6 wks, it’s not going to and another method should be tried.
 
#31 · (Edited)
I'll just echo what so many people have said: put the crate about 1 foot away from your bed, parallel to it, while you sleep. My most recent rescue GSD, Vajra, had apparently never been exposed to much in his previous life. He was around 3 years old when I got him, and because he was not housebroken, was mischievous with destructive chewing, and had been an outdoor dog who was anxious and paced a lot indoors, I used the crate to settle him down. The first few nights in the crate in my bedroom he barked, whined, and tried to break out of it. I got no sleep and was at my wit's end. The crate was about 6 feet from my bed, and I had to resort to using earplugs at night. Finally, I spoke to the trainer at Westside German Shepherd Rescue in L.A. who had worked with Vajra. He said it was separation anxiety. He said to put the crate right next to my bed, and when Vajra started barking and whining, to correct him each time. He said that if I wore earplugs and let him keep barking without correcting him, the behavior would continue. He suggested making some scary noise each time, such as with an air can, which I couldn't find online in any pet store, but I discovered that if I just turned on my flashlight and banged it on the wall of the wire crate, Vajra instantly shut up. With his crate only one foot from my bed, I didn't even have to get up. After one night of my banging on the crate wall to make a scary noise 3 or 4 times, he had stopped freaking out. I've had him 4 months, and now he goes willingly into his crate at night or for 1 hour of downtime after meals (to prevent bloat). He always looks very calm in the crate now, and I can be in any room of the house--I don't have to be within his sight. I remember having a crate right next to my bed for my second Akita puppy, whom I got at 7-8 weeks old, and she never had separation anxiety, but that was 20 years ago and I forgot. Who knew that a dog would get separation anxiety when the crate is 6 feet from the person's bed but not 1 foot away?
 
#36 ·
I'll just echo what so many people have said: put the crate about 1 foot away from your bed, parallel to it, while you sleep. My most recent rescue GSD, Vajra, had apparently never been exposed to much in his previous life. He was around 3 years old when I got him, and the first few nights in the crate in my bedroom he barked, whined, and tried to break out of it. I got no sleep and was at my wit's end. The crate was about 6 feet from my bed, and I had to resort to using earplugs at night. Finally, I spoke to the trainer at Westside German Shepherd Rescue in L.A. who had worked with Vajra. He said it was separation anxiety. He said to put the crate right next to my bed, and when Vajra started barking and whining, to correct him each time. He said that if I wore earplugs and let him keep barking without correcting him, the behavior would continue. He suggested making some scary noise each time, such as with an air can, which I couldn't find online in any pet store, but I discovered that if I just turned on my flashlight and banged it on the wall of the wire crate, Vajra instantly shut up. With his crate only one foot from my bed, I didn't even have to get up. After one night of my banging on the crate wall to make a scary noise 3 or 4 times, he had stopped freaking out. I've had him 4 months, and now he goes willingly into his crate at night or for 1 hour of downtime after meals (to prevent bloat). He always looks very calm in the crate now, and I can be in any room of the house--I don't have to be within his sight. I remember having a crate right next to my bed for my second Akita puppy, whom I got at 7-8 weeks old, and she never had separation anxiety, but that was 20 years ago and I forgot. Who knew that a dog would get separation anxiety when the crate is 6 feet from the person's bed but not 1 foot away?
Thank you for this! I had read a few places about tapping the crate to stop the barking but thought that would make the crate a fearful place not a positive one. When I’m working with her in the day I’ve tried to interrupt her barking then praising when she’s quiet. It’s difficult because no noise I make seems to interrupt her. And it’s constant. Not something that would be doable all night. Even if I sit immediately in front of her crate she doesn’t stop barking. So I assumed sleeping next to her at night wouldn’t help. But 6 wks of the current ignoring method only worked for 5 consecutive nights then she regressed. I feel like I’m at my wits end also. I guess trying to sleep next to her couldn’t hurt to try.
 
#32 ·
Hello,
How long does crate training take? I’m so sleep deprived it’s affecting everything.

We have a 14 wk puppy that hates her crate. She had 2 wks of crate training at 8-10 wks before we brought her home. She would fuss for about 20 min then settle in and sleep 6-7 hours before I would wake her up to go out to pee. Last week was great. For about 5 nights she was barely making a whimper starting out the night and sleeping through till I got her up. But last night was awful! We always take her outside for some exercise then practice commands or other brain games for a bit before outside for one last pee. Bedtime is always the same time. She fussed for a few minutes then fell asleep. Woke up at midnight and whined and barked for 45. She settled as fell asleep again only to start all over at 2:45am. She had peed and pooped right before bed so I knew she didn’t have to go. It had only been 4 hours. I finally had to wait for a break in the barking and let her out because my husband had to get up for work. She peed a tiny bit then ran around the house in the dark for an hour before conking out for 4 hours. I’m going crazy and have no idea what to try next to get her comfortable with her crate. It’s an xl crate with a divider. She acted the same when we had a smaller crate. The breeder said to let her cry it out if we know she’s done all her business.

We play a few crate games during the day. A few minutes of commands/ treats while in the kennel to give her confidence in it. Feeding her by hand through the crate when she’s quiet. We’ve tried covering the crate. Sitting next to it to reassure her but she just gets more upset because we’re not letting her out. White noise since our house is so quiet. Feeding her in her crate (in a long or bowl) but she’s so stubborn she won’t eat for hours, I’m assuming because she doesn’t want to go in it. Short sessions in the crate when we’re in the room, she freaks out as soon as she finishes her treat. Special treats only given in the crate like bully sticks. As soon as you step out of the room she stops chewing and starts barking. Putting a toy in with her but she doesn’t like toys.
Does anyone have any more suggestions?Is this normal during crate training? Do we just need to stick with it? I feel like 6 wks of training should have had more progress and not gone backwards.
Thank you!
This is a bummer when you need your sleep as well! Maybe a t-shirt in her crate that you've slept in?
 
#35 ·
I haven’t tried sleeping next to her. She seems to get more agitated when she can see someone but isn’t being let out. The she did the 2 wks of crate training she didn’t have anyone next to her so we thought the consistency would be better. I don’t want to change too many things at once but 6 wks doing it this way doesn’t seem to be working so maybe trying to sleep next to her is worth a shot.
 
#46 ·
Hello,
How long does crate training take? I’m so sleep deprived it’s affecting everything.

We have a 14 wk puppy that hates her crate. She had 2 wks of crate training at 8-10 wks before we brought her home. She would fuss for about 20 min then settle in and sleep 6-7 hours before I would wake her up to go out to pee. Last week was great. For about 5 nights she was barely making a whimper starting out the night and sleeping through till I got her up. But last night was awful! We always take her outside for some exercise then practice commands or other brain games for a bit before outside for one last pee. Bedtime is always the same time. She fussed for a few minutes then fell asleep. Woke up at midnight and whined and barked for 45. She settled as fell asleep again only to start all over at 2:45am. She had peed and pooped right before bed so I knew she didn’t have to go. It had only been 4 hours. I finally had to wait for a break in the barking and let her out because my husband had to get up for work. She peed a tiny bit then ran around the house in the dark for an hour before conking out for 4 hours. I’m going crazy and have no idea what to try next to get her comfortable with her crate. It’s an xl crate with a divider. She acted the same when we had a smaller crate. The breeder said to let her cry it out if we know she’s done all her business.

We play a few crate games during the day. A few minutes of commands/ treats while in the kennel to give her confidence in it. Feeding her by hand through the crate when she’s quiet. We’ve tried covering the crate. Sitting next to it to reassure her but she just gets more upset because we’re not letting her out. White noise since our house is so quiet. Feeding her in her crate (in a long or bowl) but she’s so stubborn she won’t eat for hours, I’m assuming because she doesn’t want to go in it. Short sessions in the crate when we’re in the room, she freaks out as soon as she finishes her treat. Special treats only given in the crate like bully sticks. As soon as you step out of the room she stops chewing and starts barking. Putting a toy in with her but she doesn’t like toys.
Does anyone have any more suggestions?Is this normal during crate training? Do we just need to stick with it? I feel like 6 wks of training should have had more progress and not gone backwards.
Thank you!
i HAVE HAD GSD\S LONGER THAN YOU HAVE LIVED. TRUST ME, YOUR PUP HATES THE CRATE AS MUCH AS YOU WOULD IF YOUR PARENTS DID THAT TO YOU. YOU WILL NEVER HAVE A BETTER COMPANION IF YOU RAISE HIM AS A FAMILY MEMBER INSTEAD OF A LOWLY ANIMAL. NEVER EVER USE NEGATIVE REINFORCEMENT. HE NEEDS TO FULLY COMPREHEND THE MEANING OF "NO". ONCE HE DOES, YOU CAN TEACH HIM ANYTHING.
 
#48 ·
Ummmmm WHAT????

I’m going to start with, please let’s not be an Anthropologist as it’s beyond unfair to any animal and sets them up for total failure. I honestly can’t even form more words into any kind of a civil response.

YOU WIN THE MOST BIZARRE POST OF THE YEAR!
 
#47 ·
I think the issue is they didn't have the crate near them for bedtime and expected a puppy to be in the crate in the living room area or something. Most times puppies need baby steps. And during her crate training period with the other person how did that go? I don't get soft unless I need to be so ignoring the puppy in the crate along with a firm quiet and maybe a slight knock on the crate could work. Otherwise if the pup is still going crazy then either stop the crate or seek professional help. I crate mine more so when the kids are around and when it's just me if I crate her she may whine for a few seconds and I ignore then she settles down. I don't need her going everywhere all the time with me in the house especially when my hands are full. Sometimes I go out for a small smoke and if I hear her barking I'll open the door and say I'm still here she'll stop. As for going to work and leaving her in the crate I slowly started doing that around the 4 month mark so I could come home and release her. I know not everyone has the chance to take their dog to work. I'm lucky I can.

Not everyone wants to leave the dog unattended at home when gone to work or in a bedroom unless they are fine with dealing with a mess if it happens. Plus I don't leave my animal with toys unattended for long periods of time. Everyone has their own preferences. And at the end of the day as the dog ages it all depends on what the handler wants out of the dog. You wanna be some drill sergeant type person, silly and goofy or balance it out. I'm on the balanced side like I am with the kids.

My pups doing a lot better in the crate cause I chose not to give in. Now if she was constantly going bat crazy not settling that's a different story. GSDs are known for separation anxiety also, so medication may be needed. If mine starts chewing I'd take her to the vet because it can help.
 
#49 ·
Not everyone wants to leave the dog unattended at home when gone to work or in a bedroom unless they are fine with dealing with a mess if it happens. Plus I don't leave my animal with toys unattended for long periods of time. Everyone has their own preferences.
OK but all things being equal, wouldn't you prefer to leave the dog uncrated at home if there was no concern for "dealing with a mess if it hapens"? Crates aren't for babysitting for lack of training imo.