Hi Urek , welcome. By saying your dog was bought to be a service dog do I understand correctly that you mean a "social therapy" dog . Less than two weeks ago I dealt with this issue. I had a woman approach me needing a dog for therapy for her young daughter , who had so many issues including delayed language, outbursts of anger, irrational fears and panic. Her daughter seemed to benefit with contact to a dog , calming down , less fearful. I investigated the requirements and the liabilities. There is the problem . Liability . A therapy dog has the same privileges (rights) as a seeing eye/ guide dog so there is huge exposure to risk . The
institute that would be training and certifying the dog has to be critical in the selection of the dog and the pairing of that dog to the right person . Even at Canine Vision Canada the guide dogs sometimes just did not click with a handler , and were reassigned until the perfect match was found. You come to the institute with your one lovely family member pet and they can't be forthright and tell you that it is not feasible, the dog is inappropriate, without offending . Your pet is your pet. They may work ten times more problem solving than if the proper selection was made from the start . That is why they are telling you that they won't train the dog because they didn't pick the dog. They know best what the requirements are. They are responsible in the end , legally , and so they decline to be involved.
I declined from providing a dog for this lady who contacted me .
I did refer her to Sterling Dog Services , an organization that provides fully trained service dogs of all sorts. I had experience with them having provided a dog for training . The finished dog , fully trained and ceritifed is valued at $10,000 to $18,000 -- but don't faint , because the dog is provided to the end user at no cost. You must however apply and qualify. This is my understanding.
I think that the Lions Foundation , heavily involved in Canine Vision Canada , and other charitable groups , may be able to help you.
I would not count on the dream of having your dear family pet trained though.
I didn't know the Monks were still around---