Oddly, after about 40 years of having dogs, the only dogs that ever ran into me were someone else's. None of my dogs ever bumped their head into mine (this is not to brag but I think it has to do with the fact that I put respect on the first place from hour 1). Coincidence? (knock on wood, just to be on the safe side :grin2:
But I have been pulled off my feet twice. Once by a young GSD (pre-prong times) who saw his best friend and the other time by a 23 pound Whippet when she heard the lure starting and I wasn't prepared for her fast response.
Deja, gently nudges me sometimes as if to say, "Hey, you haven't looked at me for the last xx minutes." or when I am walking slowly due to back surgery she touches my hands once in awhile. I consider it emotional support.
I think sometimes we get the wrong idea about respect. We demand respect from our dogs, and generally fail miserably, or have a dog that gives us a wide berth because the dog is mixing resepct with fear.
I respect my dogs from day one. I respect them as dogs, not furry people. Nothing more disrespectful to a dog than to expect it to fill a human roll, or to give it human-qualities as though the canine qualities it naturally possesses are lacking. I treat the dogs with respect. Which does not mean I do not correct them when necessary. In fact it requires that I maintain a level of discipline. It would be disrespectful to be permissive. But I talk to them, care for them, require of them what I need from them, without hassle, without coddling, without shoving treats in them to either distract or trick them into allowing me to cut a toenail or to pay them for it.
And they, trust and respect me. I am the lady with the food bucket, the one who opens the gates, the one that takes them wherever they go. They are not unintelligent.
They respect me because I am trustworthy. I am worthy of respect. They give it. I do not demand it from day 1. What this has to do with bumping, I don't know.
I have seen a young punk teenager of a dog run by my older bitch and she gave him a nip to tell him to watch it. The nip was not vicious, just communication. This was over 10 years ago, and the bitch was Arwen. He wheeled on her and laid into her. I then made a mistake for which I bear the marks yet. Be that as it may. Dogs can be careful, and can bump deliberately, probably for a number of reasons. Mostly it isn't a big deal.
I know trainers will have you sit the dog at door ways, and make you make the dog wait in hallways, or stairways. If you have a problem-dog, it is an opportunity to improve the dog's self control, add some training opportunities, and remind the dog that we are, inf fact, calling the shots. If you do not have a problem dog, then not waiting at doorways, stairs and hallways will not net you and uncontrollable dog who thinks he is in charge.