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So we have had some destruction in the house lately when we're not home. Possibly triggered in part by me being away from home more, but even when I've been working from home for days and we're out in the evening for a few hours...things get destroyed. The dogs stay in the master bedroom with a gate - the cats can get in/out. At first, the odd accessible thing on nightstands/shelving. Toby blamed Xerxes, I blamed Agis (who is taller). Then some bedding...we no longer have a grey flat sheet for our bed. Well, we do, it's just a little...ribbon-y. Certain that was mostly Xerxes, but I think despite us getting more toys that was less anxiety and more about Xerxes and Agis playing tug with the bedding...
I have started running regularly again - instead of saying 'I need to run another 50 miler' and getting intimidated and being all over the place and not sticking to a training plan, I decided, let's try to haul my fat butt around a 10k race course a bit faster...so am enjoying runs (well, mostly - speedwork is fun and horrifying) (any Hamilton members want to come and laugh at me in November, I'll be around haha sigh). Xerxes loves running so is getting his energy out that way, and they get walks of course, for whatever good that does (not much, but Neb enjoys them).
Agis is not a big runner. He likes running up north but not in the city. My ankles no longer allow for trail running sadly. He does love to hike. He loves the woods. I sometimes can get him to come out with Xerxes and I but often he disappears. I don't want to force him.
I had a little psychotic episode a few weeks ago - so I've been very caught up in that. Been better for a week or two (just in time to take the nieces backpacking). Agis was destructive when I was up north with Xerxes - apparently he's taken up 'reading' (that or he thought Toby was taking too long with some of his books - what my e-reader ever did I don't know, but it still works, just has a few puncture wounds).
Anyways, obviously the walks I've been scraping by with and random training haven't been cutting it for either of them.
Having got back yesterday and been shown the destruction by Toby (who just left the torn book bits on the floor...am I supposed to clean those up? Surely you could've shown me the books and not left torn page bits around - I mean, we have a broom and in theory he's the one who is supposed to vacuum, though I often do it) I realized today that in addition to the physical I need to get Agis's brain working again. We did a mid-afternoon training walk - not far, but he did lots of heeling - he responds well to a verbal 'uh' if he starts to surge, at least, but clearly he needs a refresher. Sit stays are fine (I mean, what is there to say about those) but downs/down stays are a bit sloppy). Come is very excited poop eating grin coming at you (I didn't bring treats either because I'm not sure where I put my treat bag post-backpacking; I have not unpacked) however on both the sidewalk and the field it sometimes goes past and then turns around and comes back. Not an obedience competition winning come, obviously.
Financially we had to put the in-person stuff with Shield and Agis on hold. Stupid Toby needs a stupid implant because a stupid root canal failed (okay, Toby's not stupid, but we don't have the cash to pay for it - my mom will lend it to us, but obviously we would rather not - we have some time to save up, but we have to save up - and my CPP/EI are FINALLY dropping off, being sick for so long denting my income dents it in more way than one because that takes longer; our aim is $3k in 6 months which I think we can do, but yeah. We took some money out from Toby's RRSP recently to get back in the black or whatever colour is not overdraft, and we can do that for his root canal too, but again, would rather not - luckily his tax hit won't be huge because he doesn't have high income and we were careful to stay at the 10% lump sum range. Also, Neb having his health issues and being too old to insure - 14 and all - we need to have cash on hand for him too). Anyways, Agis had a good reactivity moment this afternoon - we got surprised by a dog walking down to the street from it's house hidden by a hedge - both dogs surprised each other - but Agis barely blinked an eye, just kept going.
And we got complimented in the park on how well-trained he was. I suspect that says more about the dogs around here than it does Agis, I hate to say.
So - I have a plan:
-train the heck out of Agis on my own. He's still panting on his bed from our training walk
-I'd say train Xerxes but man he's got a mind that is all nose...anyone have any squirrel musk?
-keep on running with Xerxes
-get Agis to run with us?
-hike 1 day/weekend with Brat #1 and Brat #2
Any suggestions on how to get Agis jazzed to run? I hate making him do something that causes him distress - he tends to go into flight mode in the city, though he is better if he's with Xerxes - but it's going to be the most bang for my buck physically I think, day in, day out.
The good news is my hybrid work is currently all work from home as commuting is very bad for my crazy (see earlier comment about psychosis) and so I have an accommodation for the next three months, and then we'll reassess. Yay being nuts! Whoo! But it lets me do lots of training with Agis and even Mr. Nose throughout the day.
I have started running regularly again - instead of saying 'I need to run another 50 miler' and getting intimidated and being all over the place and not sticking to a training plan, I decided, let's try to haul my fat butt around a 10k race course a bit faster...so am enjoying runs (well, mostly - speedwork is fun and horrifying) (any Hamilton members want to come and laugh at me in November, I'll be around haha sigh). Xerxes loves running so is getting his energy out that way, and they get walks of course, for whatever good that does (not much, but Neb enjoys them).
Agis is not a big runner. He likes running up north but not in the city. My ankles no longer allow for trail running sadly. He does love to hike. He loves the woods. I sometimes can get him to come out with Xerxes and I but often he disappears. I don't want to force him.
I had a little psychotic episode a few weeks ago - so I've been very caught up in that. Been better for a week or two (just in time to take the nieces backpacking). Agis was destructive when I was up north with Xerxes - apparently he's taken up 'reading' (that or he thought Toby was taking too long with some of his books - what my e-reader ever did I don't know, but it still works, just has a few puncture wounds).
Anyways, obviously the walks I've been scraping by with and random training haven't been cutting it for either of them.
Having got back yesterday and been shown the destruction by Toby (who just left the torn book bits on the floor...am I supposed to clean those up? Surely you could've shown me the books and not left torn page bits around - I mean, we have a broom and in theory he's the one who is supposed to vacuum, though I often do it) I realized today that in addition to the physical I need to get Agis's brain working again. We did a mid-afternoon training walk - not far, but he did lots of heeling - he responds well to a verbal 'uh' if he starts to surge, at least, but clearly he needs a refresher. Sit stays are fine (I mean, what is there to say about those) but downs/down stays are a bit sloppy). Come is very excited poop eating grin coming at you (I didn't bring treats either because I'm not sure where I put my treat bag post-backpacking; I have not unpacked) however on both the sidewalk and the field it sometimes goes past and then turns around and comes back. Not an obedience competition winning come, obviously.
Financially we had to put the in-person stuff with Shield and Agis on hold. Stupid Toby needs a stupid implant because a stupid root canal failed (okay, Toby's not stupid, but we don't have the cash to pay for it - my mom will lend it to us, but obviously we would rather not - we have some time to save up, but we have to save up - and my CPP/EI are FINALLY dropping off, being sick for so long denting my income dents it in more way than one because that takes longer; our aim is $3k in 6 months which I think we can do, but yeah. We took some money out from Toby's RRSP recently to get back in the black or whatever colour is not overdraft, and we can do that for his root canal too, but again, would rather not - luckily his tax hit won't be huge because he doesn't have high income and we were careful to stay at the 10% lump sum range. Also, Neb having his health issues and being too old to insure - 14 and all - we need to have cash on hand for him too). Anyways, Agis had a good reactivity moment this afternoon - we got surprised by a dog walking down to the street from it's house hidden by a hedge - both dogs surprised each other - but Agis barely blinked an eye, just kept going.
And we got complimented in the park on how well-trained he was. I suspect that says more about the dogs around here than it does Agis, I hate to say.
So - I have a plan:
-train the heck out of Agis on my own. He's still panting on his bed from our training walk
-I'd say train Xerxes but man he's got a mind that is all nose...anyone have any squirrel musk?
-keep on running with Xerxes
-get Agis to run with us?
-hike 1 day/weekend with Brat #1 and Brat #2
Any suggestions on how to get Agis jazzed to run? I hate making him do something that causes him distress - he tends to go into flight mode in the city, though he is better if he's with Xerxes - but it's going to be the most bang for my buck physically I think, day in, day out.
The good news is my hybrid work is currently all work from home as commuting is very bad for my crazy (see earlier comment about psychosis) and so I have an accommodation for the next three months, and then we'll reassess. Yay being nuts! Whoo! But it lets me do lots of training with Agis and even Mr. Nose throughout the day.