[aubie]

If you are going to work with your dogs around the toddler, do so with a leash and also with as little people around as possible...people make things worse. They give off vibes, they get excited, etc. Just start working on "watch me", sits, downs, etc. with your dog on leash near the child, but don't make a huge deal out of the kid being there, that sends off all kinds of vibes your dog may pick up--nervousness, etc.