You need to visit a SchH club, spend time with some good dogs. The GSD I train in SchH does bite work in the afternoon, and that same evening will sit at a little kids table with a hat and scarf on, with a tea service in front of her while my four year old talks with the teddybear in the next seat. A good GSD can and should do it all. Your family and extended circle of friends become your dog's flock.What about your wife/husband/kids? Are you saying that all Sch dogs are one person dogs?