Very few dogs will go where they sleep, that's why crating works. Get a crate just big enough for him to stand and turn around in. He'll curl into a little ball and sleep just fine, but he'll whine for you to let him out if he has to go. It might take a while to sleep through the night with no potty breaks, but he'll probably stop barking/whining faster and at least your hubs could sleep in the bed. One to two potty breaks beat sleeping in a lawn chair, I think. Give it a shot. Our pup woke up to potty for a few weeks, but stopped crying after a few nights.