Our 9 1/2 year old female is having issues with incontinence. Right now we're waiting for results of a urine culture but in the meantime I can't keep washing her bedding and ours everyday! Any suggestions on good diapers, disposable or non disposable? Breaks my heart to even think about putting her in one but right now I don't think I have a choice. 9 years old seems so young to me for her to be going through this, and it happened pretty suddenly. Anyone else having issues with their female at this age? We've ruled out a UTI with the regular urine sample test.