We have an 8 month old spayed female GSD with terrible behavior.
She is in prime "butthead" phase. Usually around this time young dogs like to test their boundries, see what they can get away with, what they can't. This means that NILIF (nothing in life is free) needs to be worked on with everything you do with her and YOU need to be consistent.
She doesn't get anything (even pets and cuddles) without doing something for it, either sits and downs, waiting patiently, focus, etc. Nothing is free.
Completed three of six week dog obedience class...no real benefit.
This only means one thing to me - you were not consistent enough with her and the commands/rules.
No slacking off, having a dog is hard work, especially a high energy working breed like the GSD.
Training needs to be done in short session throughout the
day. Not just once a week.
You are on track with getting her into classes though, I would definitely save some money and get her back into classes but also make sure YOU follow through and be consistent with her at home too.
She won't come when called,
Don't give her a chance to ignore you. Leash her up. Keep a long lead on her outside and call her to you, if she ignores you, grab the leash and bring her in, guiding her with the leash, when she takes a step on her own toward you - throw a party and treat her! She made a right step - one step leads to two and two leads to three.
When she is in the house, keep her leashed and tethered to you. She goes where you go and she learns that ignoring you is not an option.
If she can't be tethered to you - crate her.
Next to the leash the crate is a dog owners most important tool in raising a dog IMO.
runs away when we try to leash her,
Don't give her the chance. See above.
What types of things is she barking at? Is it out of frustration? Fear?
If it is frustration she needs to expell more engery which means YOU need to step up the excerise and mental games. Try some "find it" games in the house or outside in the snow. Throw some kibble or treats on the ground outside (with her on a long lead remember) and have her "find it".
Throw the ball for her, call her to you (with her on a long lead) and then reel her in and praise like crazy when she comes!
keeps my husband up all night wanting to go out.
Crate her. Ignore her. If she is peeing every time she goes out at this age, I would think a vet check is in order, see if she has a UTI or something causing her to need to go so often.
I am about to the point of saying we need to get rid of her.
Having a well trained dog is a lot of work.
I have poor hearing and my husband thought it would be nice to have a "watch dog" for me but she is too much.
If you are consistent and provide a lot of excerise (physcial) and mental stimulation it will get easier.
Lunges to the point I can not even take her for a walk...she is TOO powerful. Seventy seven pounds of raw energy. Any advice for us before she is put out to pasture???
Is the prong on properly? Are you using it properly? A trip to a trainier using this tool may be inorder to help you use it.
Good luck.