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post #1 of 41 (permalink) Old 05-10-2008, 08:46 AM Thread Starter
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I need to whine.

Do you ever get depressed when you know your senior is failing despite doing your best to help them.

Logically I know you can't fight old age.

I know that some health/physical problems can show improvement, while with others issues you just do your best and still have to watch them going down hill, losing the battle.

Ringer's not responding to his medications and therapy like he was earlier. Last week he showed some improvement after his Bowen Massage, but not like the improvement was months earlier. In fact last week I was thinking he might be able to celebrate his 13th birthday next month ... this week I'm not sure.

He's having a lot of problems getting up, he wobbles like a drunken sailor all the time. He had his therapy Wednesday, has shown a little improvement in getting up and walking. He has another appointment next week.

Today he didn't eat all his breakfast. When a Hooligan doesn't eat with gusto they're not feeling well, they're sick. I held his bowl and he nibbled at it. I added 1/2 can more of the meat (EVO 95% beef) and mixed it in and he ate most of it. I gave him 1/4 can more by itself and he ate it. But it's not like my Ringer Dinger to pick at his meals. Since he ate I don't feel a trip to the vet is necessary except maybe to get a case of a/d which he loves more than the EVO - hopefully it will make meal time more to his taste.

I got depressed earlier this week when little Asher lost his battle with spondylosis, he didn't even get to celebrate his 9 month birthday, it wasn't fair. So yes, I know I'm lucky to have three seniors fighting and losing to old age problems. But it still hurts watching them slowly fading away, not being able to protect them, not knowing how much longer I'll be able to spend with any of them.

I love this SENIOR forum, it's so nice to be able to come to a special place for the old guys, where people understand what I'm whining about. Thanks for listening.

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post #2 of 41 (permalink) Old 05-10-2008, 09:31 AM
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Re: I need to whine.

I'm sorry that Ringer is not responding-and am really hopeful that he is just having a downswing before an upswing. I do know that you are doing everything that could be done for him!

I was just freaking out to myself last night looking at Kramer because he looks so different. It's almost like having had two different dogs, and I try-for him and me-to make sure that the old Kramer gets to come out every day before this new one takes a nap or stumbles or gets startled by my hand or voice. Hope you don't mind adding a whine from me.

I've never had a senior, would not know what to do without this section!

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Owning a senior is like being on a rollercoaster of emotion. They have good days and bad days and they can make you crazy worrying over them. I love having seniors though as I can't get over how special they are and I can appreciate them on a day by day basis.

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The eldest just turned 13. She's wobbly in her hind quarters and takes expensive heart meds. The eyes are still there, the joy at visiting the horse is still there, the joy at greeting an old friend was still there when we went up to Denver. (I rented a car in part because the dogs would be uncomfortable these days in the cab of the truck for that long a drive.) I don't see the wobbly dog when I look at her. I see the "speeding bullet dog" the "frisbee fool dog" the "horse maniac" dog. I remember her awesome recall at a fun match. I remember how my "perfect long sit" dog downed at that same fun match to calm me (and blow the match).

What can I say? Look at what you have and not what you don't. It's easier on you.

Right now I'm getting an odor signal that says I should move her outside for a bit so off I go...
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Re: I need to whine.

A year ago I had three seniors, now I have one. I feel your pain.


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Gayle, so sorry to hear that Ringer is going through a bad spell. I'm praying he perks up so that you may have some more time to cherish him.

Hugs and warm thoughts coming your way.

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Re: I need to whine.

It is tough to allow them to age. They seem to handle it a lot better than we do.

I go through this every week with Chama. She rarely has really good days any more. Just ok days and bad days. I keep trying new supplements, herbs, etc. with her but so far no miracles. Yesterday she was limping a lot but today she is ok. Some days she can barely make it up and down the stairs to bed but still works hard at it because she knows she'll get a treat once she gets up there.

She still plays a bit with Rafi, loves her food and treats, loves walks, even when she can barely make it around the block and loves seeing people that she knows.

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I am so sorry to hear about Ringer. I will keep in my thoughts
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I am so sorry Gayle. {{hugs}} to you and Ringer.

Seniors are so very special. It is so difficult to watch them age. I know, I have been there, I am there.
We miss Princess so very much. In four days from now, we would of been celebrating her 12th Birthday. Sad, that she passed away right after her 11th. We always made a huge deal with her birthdays, and use to have all the dogs sit around the child care table with cupcakes. All the dogs get something special on Birthdays, but Princess, well hers were always that extra something. Ken and I are having a difficult time remembering that now.

Jake isn't doing so well. He has lost so much muscle mass in his back legs, and becoming very wobbly. He will be 10 next month, and that seems so young to me. He does have good days, but since last year, he has aged so much, it breaks our heart to watch.
We are just taking one day at a time, and enjoying each day that we can, and focus on what we have now, and not what tomorrow will bring.

Enjoy Ringer, make every day a special day, Make every day count.

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Oh Gayle. Oh Ringer.

I know. And I'm sorry that he's not doing well.

I've been there before (just over a year ago) and I know how terribly hard it is. Right now, I know that my little senior's age and life expectancy are on a collision course, and I panic when I think about it.

Our seniors have given us so much. And every day they stumble or hurt, we hurt because we can't fix things for them. When they were young, they were hungry, so we fed them. They were squirrelly, so we exercised them. They had crusty ears, so we changed their food. Even when they had weird ailments, most of the time, we could fix those, or at least, manage them fine.

But as Ruth says, Zamboni enjoys rubs and being held; she's still competitive when we have training sessions with Camper and gets into sits and downs first (and therefore gets her snack first). We bought her a trailer/stroller; when she gets tired on her walks, she hops into her trailer, and Camper is happy to pull her around the neighborhood. This is my beagle that used to go on backpacking trips, 12-miles each day. We'd arrive at our site exhausted. As we were setting up camp, she'd be off chasing squirrels, as though she never hiked that day at all. So yes, things have changed. Her ACL surgeries weakened her hind end, and she's arthritic. But she still enjoys her life a lot.

Her vision is deteriorating; her hearing is significantly reduced. But she has a strong devoted GSD service dog that she relies on to tell her when to bark and when Mom is calling. That beagle nose tells her when dinner is ready all on its own.

I know that Ringer loves his humans and his Hooligan pack, and enjoys every day thoroughly. Yes, adjustments have had to be made, but he probably hasn't noticed them too much. If he's like my dogs, he is handling his seniorhood MUCH better than his humans do.

We worry about the future. (And I, for one, am brilliant when it comes to obsessing about what can go wrong in the future!) Our dogs live in the present. And while we're worrying about tomorrow, they're appreciating today.

As Tammy said, enjoy Today with Ringer. It's easier than it sounds. But Today is all we really have anyhow....for ALL our furry kids, the young ones as well as the seniors.

Try not to worry too much about tomorrow. Let tomorrow take care of itself.
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