I think that a garden stone would be a very nice gift of remembrance. We never had children by choice and have always had 4 legged babies to keep us company. They are all so special in their own way and losing them is just as hard the first time as they are the last. Since we bury our babies at home, most of them have a concrete statue that resembles them most on their graves, that could be another option.
karen, mom to:
ace-gsd (bi-color) 6/14/2010
mandy-yellow lab 1/31/2009
baby-terrier mix (waiting at the bridge)