It is worse with balls, either on a rope or not. It seems like the ones she can squish are the worst. Can't wait till tomorrow. The plan is using a solid rubber ball she cannot squish; when she doesn't release I am letting her have the toy and go inside by myself, leaving her there with her prize. If she doesn't seem to care about that (I will watch her unseen to her), I will return and take her inside, toy and all, no more commands or talk. No further consequence other than ignoring her for a while. Next time it is immediately going back inside. I don't need a drag line as I can always get a hold of her. If that doesn't work, then I will use the Ecollar.
It is much easier to outsmart someone else's dog than your own. Thanks every one.