BAD person did bad things to my GSD. Many tears over the past few days.
Hi all. I have been on and off for almost two years now on here. The last update was... I finally found a trainer suitable to send my beloved dog Apache to (I was so very wrong) for 6 to 8 weeks.. for general obedience and training, I needed the help desperately. Here comes the update.. brace yourselves.
I called a local place several times with great ratings, they never called me back and the hours of operation were kind of odd.. basically hard to reach on every possible way it seemed. SO I called a man I had previously spoken with when Apache was one... he talked to me for what seemed like an hour, soft spoken and seemed very knowledgeable.
Fast forward to 14 weeks ago, we called him once again and decided to move forward with him taking Apache to train for what the contract said 6-8 weeks.
I am first going to list the giant red flags that my stupidity apparently didn’t pick up on initially.... then I will elaborate on my ordeal and my dogs.
1) he doesn’t allow anyone to visit their dog at his place. He said it “breaks training concentration”
2) he didn’t take my dogs dog food. I have Apache on Fromm, has been for over a year. I asked and he said “oh no, he will be fine” ... odd I thought but I was a believer of his experience stupidly.
3) he asked me before he left, a little weirdly when I did a LOT of worrying and thinking... “good looking shepherd and where did you buy him again”? Weeks later that comment stuck.
4) during training he not once called to update us. Not once. I called of course and my calls were rarely if ever answered. When they WERE he bs’ed me and told me how “aggressive” Apache was and training kept being prolonged. He hung on the aggressive word many times.
5) the more I spoke I realized he sounded like a real... smooth talker. Never gave us a date when he would return our dog.
6) around week 9 I was in severe worry mode... when I spoke to him via phone, I said “ sorry I’m not trying to bug but I just... really miss my dog” his weird reply was, while chewing on food “ yep I miss mine too”. . . . Excuse me?? You have trained over 20 years and slipped and make me believe you don’t even own a pet yourself now.... I was very worried then.
Actual story now::
I found his website ***please contact OP for name/location of business***. We live in Waco... so an hour and a half drive tops. Long lengthy talk about our dog, and we moved forward and he took payment after we sent the card info. 1200 dollars for 6-8 weeks.
He used words I believed in , trust, time, getting to know my dog.... he had apparently trained thousands of dogs he claimed, and he had a very OLD but real video of him doing K9 handling in a small arena on his website. ( it was odd that the video was recorded between 1989-1992 era... all of his videos were... I’m big on the 80s and 90s so I knew they were very very old, but real nonetheless)
He came to pick up the dog at our residence. He made it seem like... a free service he enjoyed doing. I know punch me now. But... he came... we welcomed him in... Apache was muzzled immediately because he was reacting like I knew he would a stranger in the home.
He eyed the dog and talked to us over an hour in our Own HOME and used all types of technical training words hatcflew right over our heads. We were believers of him and his vast “knowledge”. So they left.
I never got calls, photos, updates... I only got verbal semi updates after I would call and call and finally get an answer or call back. I started called at week 3. Trying not to bother... but by week 10..... I spoke with a classmate in my local college who also owns a Shepherd... after she heard he was there 2 extra weeks and she saw my concern, she reached out to her trainer friend who was truly concerned as well. I got back bad info about him, she had heard through the grapevine a few bad things about this “**please contact OP for name or trainer**”. She said get your dog.
I called my husband panicked and crying, telling him I don’t care I want our dog ASAP and call him and arrange it. My husband didn’t listen to me. He got angry and said I was panicking and acting ridiculous, why would I not trust Dan and why I listening to this person at school. I was very upset, I already have severe anxiety so that day was terrible. Because Of my husband not listening to my gut feeling... 3 more weeks passed.
Almost 14 weeks into “training” and no calls still, no updates... I’d had enough. I called my breeder at this point to get help. She contacted her dear friend who trains and she called me back... wanted his info, I willingly gave... she and her friend called at different times to pretend and talk to dan about training.
I got a call back.... Jennifer you need to contact the sheriffs office in that county... get a deputy to help you and go.get.him. ASAP. She knew there were too many flags and she was worried as well.
My stupid husband (sorry but I’m still mad) finally got it I guess and realized I meant business, and we went immediately the next morning to the sherriffs office... I had a deputity follow us out there... I stayed in the car and then kind officer handled it. I had my contract for proof. It took my all to stay put in my vehicle.
Guess what... **please contact OP for name** was not there apparently, only his dope fiend looking lady trainer was... she met the officer at the gate... looked baffled and I heard her say training could take 6 months. Liar liar liar. Also I believe ***** was there on his property somewhere, he wouldn’t show face. He never in a million years expected us to show... I guess he thought he could keep stringing me along.
I know he was breeding my dog. I know it. Who knows what happened... I will never know.
When Apache finally was led out, by this woman....who couldn’t even TELL the cop his name... “oh the aggressive one?” She didn’t want us getting him back, after almost an hour of her “trying to call **** and text him” the officer said we would not leave until our dog was returned.
He came out, my beautiful dog.... panting, dirty, matted fur, he looked like a prisoner literally. No life in him.
As soon as he saw me he lit up, but he smelle like feces and urine ( I know that poor dog had been laying in his own filth day and night... NEVER has my dog smelled that bad... and I have gone 5 months without bathing him before so I know. ) his coat had never been brushed. It took me brushing him manytimes to get him looking like he did before. One bath? Wasn’t enough... he was filthy. Not dirty dog outside filth... this was terrible.
It has been two days home now... he has ainpy been sleeping. Has had some nightmares, and when I touched his neck I noticed he flinched. He’s not the same right now. He is severely traumatized and today I am seeing a bit of difference but it’s been bad.
I trusted this person... stupidly. I text him and called him, not nice things believe me... no answer. He also took his website down. You can see it online but it won’t open now.
I let him know in my texts... that I am sure he was breeding my dog without any consent.
Training??! He is the same. No leash commands, nothing at all... he literally lied to me through his teeth and probably just bred him over and over and locked him back up.
I did... what. I thought was right. I would never send him away unless I felt comfortable. This has all been a nightmare. I have cried so many tears. My husband didn’t listen to me 3 weeks ago. I just.... it’s been so bad. This man also lives on the property so it’s not like he will move, I’m sure he is devising a new plan or webpage right now. He is 62 years old.
I wrote a LONG complaint to the online BBB and am waiting for it to post, apparently he can respond.... I called the local sherriffs office again to go out there one more time... but I’m sure he did a lot of hiding his dirt in a night... so when I got a call back, the officer said there was a Pyrenees and a Rottweiler there and both had water. That’s all. No help.
I immediately took him to the vet that day I got him back, bacterial infection from eating his poop while being stuck in a cage nonstop.... and dehydration.
That’s my story.
Last edited by JenniferAaron; 05-09-2019 at 10:49 AM.