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Advice needed: First night with rescue, Lucy (text heavy)

SO many of you may have seen the thread of my husband and I hoping to rescue Miss Lucy, the Boerboel mix. Well.. she has arrived! She was thrilled with us and hopped willingly into our car. It was really a great meet and greet. Due to circumstances, we were not able to bring Titan to meet Lucy. When we brought them home we I brought Titan out to the street where Lucy was and they met there. Titan was 100% ok with her.. no issue. She, however, started barking at him and snapped at his face. After correcting with a leash pop and a "No!" we went for a walk with them.. They did fine for the most part with only one other attempt by Lucy.. then it was sniffing and new stuff and excitement.

After a good walk, we came back home and went in the yard with them both off leash and they did fine. Followed each other around, peed, sniffed, you know the drill. The foster said that she was not toy possessive or anything like that but loved fetching with the other dogs.. silly me, I thought, well let's see if they can play together.. nothing drastic happened but she did chase behind him and bark the whole way (not too abnormal) but then kept in his face until he dropped the toy then kept barking at him. Well that was dumb of me. Shouldn't have tried that, especially since she didn't particularly like him to begin with. So I realized my mistake and decided to just go inside with them.. show her where she was sleeping, water bowls, etc.

Inside they have been fine. Ignoring one another again. Both drank water. Both got sent to bed for a treat... Titan seems to be avoiding her.. when she gets near him he just walks another way or takes the long way around her if she's laying down. She was turned around and he was sniffing her butt and when she realized she turned sniff him, but I didn't like her posture. She got real still with hackles raised and she just looked like she was going to snap at him again, so I called her name and she broke that posture and nothing happened. right now they are laying down right next to each other. Titan laid down first and she followed and laid about 2 feet from him on her side.

I totally get this is the first night. I am not asking for a quick fix, I just want to make sure I do things right from the beginning (pardoning for the toy things, hind sight 20/20). Initially, she was going to sleep in our room at night with Titan. Their beds are next to each other in the room. There's really no other way to have them. Should I do that or keep her crated at night for a while?

Obviously no alone time for quite sometime. She will be crated during the day while we work and any other time we aren't there. But how about advice on getting them further acquainted? No toys probably at the same time. That seems to rile her up. Walks maybe? I don't need them to be BFFs, I can handle two dogs that aren't besties.. but I would like to not have to worry about them getting into it. Can anyone offer advice on just some things I can do to make this a healthy and good transition for the both of them?

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I would crate her at night for a couple of weeks or until you feel she's really settled in and Titan and her are comfortable together.Play with them separately,and stop any hostile appearing posture matter of factly.Separate them with baby gates sometimes to give them their own space to not worry about where the other dog is.You're doing fine!I think the ball playing just threw you off for a minute and now you're second guessing everything.It'll get better,more relaxed,and normal feeling soon

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If it were me, I would have them kept more separate for at least the first week. Keep the new girl crated at night for sure, and and give her lots of structure during her first couple weeks rather than allowing her to wander and roam around the house. Just have them get used to existing together, without needing to interact much while they both settle in to the new lifestyle, particularly the new girl.

You could take them on walks together and separately if they do well with that, especially if you had someone to come with you and walk one of them while you walked the other so its a really neutral way of being together. Definitely a good idea to not have toys when they're together at first, no need to create that extra element for potential conflict.

I don't see anything worrisome about their interactions on the first day, I think they will settle nicely with a little time to adjust
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Hmmm, see the first link here:

https://www.germanshepherds.com/forum/5296377-post8.html

I would also start to work on "Duration" work with both dogs:
Fearful, Anxious or Flat Crazy "The Place CommanD - Boxer Forum : Boxer Breed Dog Forums

Getting the dogs to be calm within each other presences would be the goal here.

And I'll add this:
Leerburg | Introducing a New Dog into a Home with Other Dogs
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Thank you guys for the advice.. I will keep her crated at night for the first bit until they comfortable with each other. Also picked up all the toys outside (didn't do much since Titan can make a leaf into a toy, as he so did, but you get the point ).

So I spoke with the foster mom again just to get a little more info and asked about her play style with the other dogs with a little more detail than just "they get along." She told me she is very vocal and can get a little pushy when she really wants to play. SO I took them outside together after putting the toys up. They both pottied then game on from Lucy. This time instead of being a little anxious, I just kinda let things be.. I was right there in case something escalated but I wanted to trust that she was just trying to play. Sure enough she just wanted to play.. she was wagging and barking and poking.. then when he wouldn't play with her, as predicted she did get a little pushy and I stepped in. Just called her and had her sit for a minute. After a bit she and him just walked around the yard exploring. and when Titan would pick up a stick or a leaf to bring to me, that's when she would get riled up again. So I think she is really just excited. We didn't stay outside but for maybe 10 minutes. We came inside and I fed them both.. they were about 5 or 6 feet from another and both did fine. this is them now.. Titan was there first and she came and laid down next to him.
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Best wishes, Whitney.
I know how much you wanted a dog like that, and I know how badly you want this to work.
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Best wishes, Whitney.
I know how much you wanted a dog like that, and I know how badly you want this to work.
Thank you! I think my problem here is I was totally anticipating a different first interaction.. I figured if anyone would be a problem it would be Titan. I didn't prepare myself for her being a little pushy or anything like that. SO my fault there. But I really do want this to work. She is a very sweet girl.. and still a puppy (18 months). This will just take time and consistency with them both. I have only ever brought puppies (little puppies like 8-12 weeks) in the house to stay never a rescue, so this is new for me too.

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Yeah, but she's a girl, and she knows it. I was at a vet once, and a female GSD walked by. She pulled on her owner and the leash to get to Hans, sniffed him, then promptly started to let him have it LOL. She was loud!

All Hans did was whine. I laughed, because he always yells back at male dogs, if they talk trash to him.
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Love the pic of her laying next to Titan.

Agree with others, will take a little time and they will settle into a routine with each other.

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Thank you! I think my problem here is I was totally anticipating a different first interaction.. I figured if anyone would be a problem it would be Titan. I didn't prepare myself for her being a little pushy or anything like that. SO my fault there. But I really do want this to work. She is a very sweet girl.. and still a puppy (18 months). This will just take time and consistency with them both. I have only ever brought puppies (little puppies like 8-12 weeks) in the house to stay never a rescue, so this is new for me too.
They are going to be fine once they get used to each other. When I went to get Midnite, Robyn was with me. He came out and was ready to play, she wasn't. She growled and snapped at him. At first I thought well this might not work but the guy told me it will be fine, you'll see. All the way home Robyn stared out the window and every now and then she would give Midnite this disgusted why do you exist look. He didn't even notice, he was so happy to be out of the shelter. Within a week they were inseparable, like they grew up together. It went so much smoother then I thought after that first introduction.

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