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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Columbia, SC
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There is no MIGHT have seen bad things when it comes to the rescue world. I see EVERYDAY the horrible things people do to dogs, I can show you pictures, introduce you to dogs damaged by said people, and tell you stories I saw first hand.
Many times damage to the dogs comes from people with good intentions, the people who take in too many dogs b/c they feel sorry for them and love them but don't know when to stop and can't handle them financially or medically or just basic socialization and handling. They can be individual citizens or rescue's...<u>no one is above question</u>. And there are things worse than death for dogs, if you don't believe that, take a look at any number of pictures on DogsDeserveBetter's website or google Michael Vick...all real stories and real dogs! I have been to countless home visits of people who SOUNDED great and said all the right things only to go to their house and they be nothing they said they were. I have been to a home to adopt a dog and found a lab chained and penned outside that they never mentioned...I would have never known and my foster would have ended up in that same pen had I not asked more questions and demanded a home visit. That family not only didn't get my dog, they signed the other unwanted dog over to me and I went home with her. It is very naive for anyone to think that everyone who is trying to help dogs should be trusted and helped with no questions. There are nasty people out there in this internet world, who can be anyone they want to be on the computer. There are also well meaning people who don't know the first thing about rescue who will criticize and get defensive when people who do this every day ask what should be simple questions. I'm sorry if anyone thinks this is jaded...but its reality. I still think most people are good hearted and mean well, but I still am going to ask people questions before working with them and I expect them to do the same of me. Rhaya's post is about being careful and knowing who you are helping and where that dog is going...it is well thought out and important guidelines everyone should be following. Many people know each other off the board and have worked together and are already vetted so they can appear to be working together and helping each other without questions...but no one should be offended if anyone asks who they are or what rescue they work for. If we all have the dog's best interest at heart and not our own feelings or ego then everyone should be open for questions and <u>hopefully</u> everyone asking is asking in a respectful way, as they should.
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Columbia, SC
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Great explanation pupresq (we were posting at the same time, LOL)! I'm sure you won't mind me sharing this...but the first time I worked with her she asked for my references and I asked for hers, even though we publicly work with known rescues....its just a smart practice.
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Sinclair Director Noble Shepherd Rescue www.nobleshepherdrescue.com Ava:6 yr-GSD Charly: 6 1/2 yr-GSD rescue Apollo: 4 yr old foster: BLOG: http://nsrapollo.blogspot.com/ Raven: 1997-2007 |
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Kentucky
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Yours too! I think you're exactly right - anyone who is checking quickly discovers how important checking really is. It is reality - there are an awful lot of bad situations out there for dogs and cats to wind up in, and, sadly, there are well meaning people sometimes responsible for putting them there.
And yes! I do not mind you sharing, as it's exactly what should be happening - you and I had been quite friendly and chatty on the board for a long time, but the first time we actually were going to work on a dog together we swapped references and info. No offense taken! That's how it should be. |
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Northern VA
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Even though I am the current president of a fairly large, fairly well known rescue group, I just got checked out when I offered to do a home visit for a dog who was in NJ who was being adopted in VA.
Did I mind? Not a bit! I too have seen first hand, (far too many times) of what can happen to these poor creatures who depend on us get them to a better life. We owe it to these dogs to make sure than nothing bad happens to them again once they are in our care.
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: Miami, FL
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I have no idea why someone who is pulling dogs from shelters would not want to make everything open and provide references, home visits from other reputable rescues. There are so many situations exposed on almost a daily basis of hoarding, selling dogs that were rescued, etc. that it would seem readily apparent why people who would to know where dogs are going and to check references.
When I "adopted" my Allie, I had two home visits from the person I got her from, a joint visit to my vet with the person and continued follow up. I was not offended but rather glad that Allie's guardian was so protective. We have to speak for those who cannot speak for themselves and ensure that we are doing our best to protect them. I readily admit I cannot afford to do rescue nor am I situated to even go to shelters due to physical limitations. However, that does not stop me from being concerned and caring for the animals. ML
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The Rescues Rule Administrator
Join Date: May 2005
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And I think the other question that needs to be asked to prove the importance of the question of where is that dog going is...
Where did that dog come from? Because each of these dogs came from somewhere. And could end up back in a shelter or awful situation again if careful screening is not employed.
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The Rescues Rule Administrator
Join Date: May 2005
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An "older" headline-a little less than a month ago.
Do you know where you are sending dogs? Quote:
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The Rescues Rule Administrator
Join Date: May 2005
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Another rescue: Pendragwn Chow Chow Rescue
http://www.whptv.com/news/local/stor...2NTkNGFBw.cspx Quote:
Ask yourself this BEFORE you help someone here get a dog-do you know how many dogs they have? Has anyone been there? Do you get frequent follow ups? How many dogs have they pulled? Where are those dogs? Just because it looks like people are sending someone dogs - have you checked them out yourself? Do you know where that dog is going? That is the difference between a dog being truly rescued, and a dog just being sent from possible death to a living death. I hope people read and really GET this thread. I really do. <span style='font-size: 14pt'><span style='font-family: Arial Black'>Video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ms5cc...e=channel_page</span></span> And it doesn't have to be that bad to be bad enough.
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Ohio
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Is there a references section anywhere on this site? A list of people's user names, and a place to rate or comment about actual personal dealings with this person? Their experience, references, etc? Wouldn't that be a good idea, if it doesn't already exist?
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