I have to give up my dog...

[josh2987]

I just started this whole process a few nights ago now, and it's the hardest thing I've ever had to do, so please forgive the lack of introduction and details at the moment. I was going to write a long post, but for now I'm just going to post the e-mail I sent to Ben's( my dog) breeder.

----Hi Ned, how are you. Sorry for not sending any pics of Ben much sooner, things have been hectic to say the least. Ben has become my best friend, and he's more like a little kid than my dog now. Unfortunately, this e-mail doesn't bring good news. I was diagnosed with cancer a couple of months ago, and within the past month things have gotten progressively worse. I've always been the type of person to never give up animals(as I see them as your children as soon as you get them), but it's come to a point where I can't phsyically take care of Ben anymore. and I can't give him the attention that he diserves; and it's not fair to him. I don't have any family, and I don't have any friends that can take him. I just started this whole process of looking last night. I realize I'm completely putting you on the spot, but this wont be such a nightmare if I know Ben is going to a good home, especially one with other dogs. If you could find it in your heart to take him, I would be eterenally greatful. If you have any suggestions or can think of anyone else, please let me know. Thank you so much either way.

Josh

I have all and any papers for him, as well as the original contract. I will post pics of Ben when he was a puppy, and current ones as well as his father ( Limonite Von strauss.) Can anyone tell me how to post pics here? He was born Jan 16th, 2010.

Thank you

[vat]

Oh dear, I am truly sorry about your health and the fact you have to give up your best friend. I wish you the very best in your recovery. I am sure a great home can be found for your beloved pet.

When your up to it please post pictures and let us know what state you live in.

[dawnandjr]

Josh, where are you located?? Let us know if the breeder will take him back and place him or help. Could you post a pic or pedigree also? Some information on his temperament?? How does he get along with other dogs, cats, children. His manners? I am sure this is one of the most difficult decisions you have had to make. And the most selfless too.

[Vinnie]

Here's how you can post a picture: How to post pictures on this site

[Baersmama]

So sorry about your health, Josh. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. It is a shame you have the worry of what to do with Ben, on top of all else you are going through.

[Stevenzachsmom]

I know Ben will be fine. I am more concerned about you. Please let us know where you are located, so we can try to help. You and Ben are in my thoughts and prayers as well.
Jan

[Lilie]

Josh - have you talked to a social worker with the facility that is treating your cancer? They have a huge support group, including people (and rescues) who might help you either place your dog, or find someone who will foster your dog until your health improves. That foster can also place your dog if you choose to do so.

My husband is a cancer survivor - those groups are worth their weight in gold.

Please, let us know what area you are from. There are really great people on this forum who would do everything they can to help you out.

[Pattycakes]

Josh - my thoughts and prayers are with you right now. I can't imagine how you must be feeling about having to give up Ben. Please let us know if we can help.

[littlebit722]

I'm so sorry about your diagnosis and that you have to give up your best friend. I'll be saying prayers that everything works out for both of you.

[DharmasMom]

Man, that just sucks- big time. I am so sorry that you are sick and even sorrier that you have to give up your best friend at a time like this. Please post your location so people here can help you.