After The Loss of Your GSD loved one..

[Katerlena]

After The Loss of Your GSD loved one--How long did you wait before Adopting?

We just brought our beloved 14 year old GSD, Kater, to the bridge today. She has had DM for the last 2 years and took a sudden turn for worse contributed to what the vet thought may have been a stroke. (Our vet was off today so we had to go to another animal hospital—something I have been worried was going to happen since what happened to Donna and Millie, whose story I have followed very closely because it was so near and dear to our own struggles with our senior girl). We console ourselves by recognizing this one unbearable day was worth all the 14 precious years we had with her although we would have given everything to have another 14.

Our animal babies are a huge part of our lives so when we lose them its like losing a big part of ourselves—as I am sure all of you here understand—and we will be grieving for a long long while.

My question is--when you lost one of your GSD loved ones—how long was it before you were ready to add to your family again? I noticed how Vanessa, Donna’s new charge, has had a consoling effect on her family and all of Millies fans too and it seems like she almost has channeled the spirit of Millie.

I found this website recently and have read some rescue stories of sweet GSDs who need homes (even though many are painful and hard to read—bless all of you who do rescue work you are angel warriors) but we previously have not wanted to add to our family and take away from any attention and devotion to our Kater.

So I just wondered how you all thought thru this after you have gone thru a loss?

Hugs to all your fur GSD babies
Kater’s Mom (as I will always be)

[srfd44-2]

After my first it was one day. My girlfriend raised GSDs and gave me one to"keep me company" for a few days.... 13 years later.

Once Ringo died I got Kai 3 weeks later. I was looking to see what was out there and Kai popped into my life.

[WiscTiger]

When your heart is ready. If your heart says yes, then it is time for you.

[BowWowMeow]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My Chama is 13 now and not doing too well so I understand completely. And I have lost two dogs in the past 1.5 years.

I adopted Chama when Massie was 7 so that I wouldn't have to be faced with losing her and not having another dog. Since then I've always had two dogs. When I've lost one I've usually waited 2-3 months before adopting another. I find it's a good solid month or two before I'm ready to let go of the intense grieving and ready to focus on searching for another to welcome into my life.

It really does help though to adopt another. I know that I'm saving another life and that the new dog will have plenty to teach me and that I have plenty of love to give him/her.

[Lauri & The Gang]

I just cannot stand the thought of a house without a dog. That's why I'll always have a pack.

[LandosMom]

some people go right out and adopt, others need more time. whatever works for you is OK.

you love for Kater shines through....

[JeanKBBMMMAAN]

I am very sorry for your loss.

On IMOM, they have a theory that often a bridge pet will send you the one when it is time.

Please take care.

[Martie]

I think everyone is different about how they feel about a new dog after losing an old one. I know people who never had dogs again as the experience of losing one was so painful that they never wanted to repeat it. Others wait varying periods of time - and others, like us, can't stand a home devoid of dogs and jump in with both feet right away.

In my mind, each person must do what they feel in their heart is best for them. No one is "wrong". As long as one doesn't expect a new dog to be like the old one - being fair to it - I say, follow your heart!

Having recently experienced a suddenly empty house, we found that rescuing a dog from the local HS was truly rewarding. We helped him and he helped us - a great way, in my mind, to begin again.

My condolences to you! It is SO painful to lose a friend. You will know when it's right for you to begin the journey again.

Martie

[GermanShepherdLover]

So sorry to hear of the loss of your little fur baby. I lost shadow (GS) two years ago at the age of 13. He was a rescue kinda, he came from a family that was not worthy of owning him, they tied him near railroad tracks, no shade, his toys consisted of empty margerine tubs. A girlfriend of mine found out that these people were moving to the states and they wanted to get rid of him. As soon as I seen him I could not leave him there. I renamed him shadow since he became one. He was always around me which I loved. But his passing was devestating to me, I couldnt function, my whole routine was messed up and I missed him so much. So three weeks later my hubby and I went and looked a GS puppies from a breeder, my heart was so empty, I knew I couldnt replace shadow, I was looking to fill the void. Next thing I know the breeder let three males out of their outdoor crate, and Lukas came right to me, that was it. No more looking. Lukas picked me which made my decission alot easier. I felt guilty at first, but now I know that shadow made a big paw print on my heart that can never be erased. And needless to say Lukas helped me out alot and I dont regret anything

[middleofnowhere]

I start looking as soon as my eyes can focus & I can speak clearly and calmly.

Some people wait. I don't (not if it's the last dog in the house.)