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07-18-2014 02:54 PM
Adelaide's_Dad Ironically, my wife just came across this blog which hits the nail on the head, in my opinion...

Basically, they're saying these "draconian" adoption rules are more to protect the emotional well being of the rescuers than facilitate the adoption of the animals:

Scaring people away from rescue adoptions | The Best Friends Blog

The responses in this thread certainly support that viewpoint.
07-14-2014 07:16 PM
sit,stay
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Originally Posted by lalachka View Post
I guess I don't understand why people give out references if they're not sure what the references will say
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As others have said, it seems to be a case of the applicant not knowing or not really hearing what others think or say about the way they keep their pets, or how negatively their lifestyle impacts a pet. They might think they are sure of what the reference will say, but sometimes they are wrong.
Sheilah
07-14-2014 06:41 PM
Lilie I filled out an application once to become an Equine Foster. The only problem I had with the entire application was the fact that I would have to allow them on my property any time. This would include giving them a key to my front gate. They would not have to provide notice, nor did I have to be there. I completed the application, but on that section I placed that I did not agree with it.

I didn't think they'd call me back, but they did. Very nice lady. She explained why they had to be able to check on the horses any time. She said they rarely came by with out notice and that it was really just poor wording on the contract.

I explained that I worked 2.7 miles from my home. They could call any time and say "We are here!" and I'd meet them at the house. I explained that I had a responsibility to my animals (dogs/cats/livestock) and that includes keeping them safe from other people.

She totally agreed with me and was saddened that we couldn't see eye to eye on this small part. I told her if they ever changed the wording on the foster contract to give me a call.

A few months later, I recieved a call asking if I'd volunteer moving horses from one foster location to their new forever home. My daughter and I agreed and moved three horses for them.

No hard feelings. I respect their needs and they respected mine.
07-14-2014 05:48 PM
trcy
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Originally Posted by Adelaide's_Dad View Post
I guess it's just easier to label, toss aside, and wait for an app. with all blanks filled in
Or maybe they have a pile of applications and it's easier to just go with the ones that were filled out properly to begin with. IDK, My application was approved. (The dog I wanted was already pending adoption.) I thought having a non fenced pool was going to be an issue, but I explained the dogs are taught how to swim and get out on their own. When the pool was redesigned and plastered we even had a ramp put in to help the dogs get in and out easier.
07-14-2014 05:35 PM
Chip18
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Originally Posted by Merciel View Post
This happens a lot.

I've had references who flat-out told me "don't let this person have a dog." I've had references who answered the phone while clearly high as a kite (I actually ended up approving that one, too, but... it was close). I've had references who praised the adopter's "alpha leadership" while telling me in detail about the myriad ways the person physically abused their dog. I've had references who praised the adopter but warned me against a nightmare roommate or family member. And so on.

Most of the time, personal references say nice things and do their best to help the application along. But sometimes they don't, and that can be pretty valuable.
Just to that point. I have friends who I would readily give a glowing recommendation to! And I have friends that I would say "are you freaking kidding me!!!"

Two untrained badly behaved BC's (herder dogs) come to mind. I thought it was herder dogs (I got to work with them for two weeks,owner free!) It's not the dogs it's them...as is usually the case.
07-14-2014 04:58 PM
Merciel
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Originally Posted by lalachka View Post
I guess I don't understand why people give out references if they're not sure what the references will say.
This happens a lot.

I've had references who flat-out told me "don't let this person have a dog." I've had references who answered the phone while clearly high as a kite (I actually ended up approving that one, too, but... it was close). I've had references who praised the adopter's "alpha leadership" while telling me in detail about the myriad ways the person physically abused their dog. I've had references who praised the adopter but warned me against a nightmare roommate or family member. And so on.

Most of the time, personal references say nice things and do their best to help the application along. But sometimes they don't, and that can be pretty valuable.
07-14-2014 04:50 PM
Jax08
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Originally Posted by misslesleedavis1 View Post
Who would do that?

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Someone who wasn't listening to what their "friend" really thought.
07-14-2014 04:47 PM
misslesleedavis1
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Originally Posted by lalachka View Post
I guess I don't understand why people give out references if they're not sure what the references will say.
Who would do that?

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07-14-2014 03:50 PM
lalachka I guess I don't understand why people give out references if they're not sure what the references will say.
07-14-2014 02:33 PM
sit,stay
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Originally Posted by Merciel View Post
it's not uncommon for rescues to require prescreening to do meet-and-greets.
Exactly. Why go to the bother of setting up a meet and greet if the potential adopter isn't going make it all the way through the screening process. And references are part of that screening process.

I have checked references where the person has said they don't think the applicant would be appropriate. It happens. One time I had a nice Border Collie foster dog. Super boy. I talked with the potential adopter, they raved about their current dog (a Pug/Shar Pei mix that looked exactly as you think it would look) and sounded as if they were going to be a great match.

I was still learning my way through the process, and allowed the potential adopter to meet my foster and introduce the two dogs before I did the reference check. Everything went well during the meet and greet. I requested the references and started making my calls. The very first personal reference I called asked me if I was aware that the potential adopter was planning on keeping my foster as an outside only dog, while the current dog lived inside. I was not aware of that. When I called the potential adopter and asked about it, he freely admitted that was the case and he thought I knew that was what he meant when he said he wanted to adopt another dog to be his current dog's buddy. My foster would have been expected to sit around out in the yard, until it was required to play with the first dog.

I had asked about how they kept the current dog, and she was an inside companion. It never dawned on me to even consider that they would keep one dog inside and the other outside. He wasn't willing to budge and I wasn't willing to send this nice dog off to be basically an outside play toy for another dog. So I told him "No".

He called my home for several weeks after and complained. He called the shelter and complained. He called my office at the shelter and complained. It was unpleasant for everyone. Lesson learned.
Sheilah
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