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|03-04-2014 12:37 PM|
I wonder if your daughter in law is nervous when you come over. Not in a bad way, but maybe she feels stressed to make a good impression (since you don't see her often) and the dog picks up on it.
Then add the fact that you are fearful of him, that might trigger the behavior as well.
The mystery is the trigger. It doesn't mean anything bad, or you are a bad person. Just something about you triggers the behavior. Trying to figure out the trigger will help the trainer work through the aggression.
|03-04-2014 12:35 PM|
|carmspack||maybe your son needs to be analysed . some deep seated unresolved sibling rivalry . just kidding .|
|03-04-2014 12:33 PM|
Originally Posted by mommytotwo View Post
|03-04-2014 12:30 PM|
|mommytotwo||No my son has a wife, he also lives with 2 cats. I don't drink or do drugs or take any medication, I don't wear any perfumes, I am not loud I am very small 4'11 & weight 105lbs, and I know everyone says they have a hard time believing he is only like that with me, but it is true the first time we meet him my husband & walked in the house & he started growling & barking at me but was fine with my husband. I am going back over tomorrow he will stay in him kennel or be a short leash for the time I ma there, of course now I am scared of him..anyways we will leave it I only come up here 2to 3x a year so it is something we can deal with. Thank you for all your suggestions.|
|03-04-2014 12:12 PM|
OP - I too have a hard time believing he's only uber aggressive towards you. But, if you and your son feel that that is the case, let's try to figure out what it is about you that triggers the dog. Please note, this will in no way excuse the behavior, just trying to figure out why the dog would single out you.
If any of the following questions is too personal, I completely understand;
What is your body language like? Are you loud (vocally)? Do you use a lot of hand gestures, arms swinging?
Are you on any specific type of medication? (Some dogs can trigger on the scent of the medication in your body) During both bites, was there alchohol involved?
Does your son live alone?
|03-04-2014 11:50 AM|
|mommytotwo||He does go to obedience classes he is now on his second set of classes.|
|03-04-2014 11:48 AM|
|mommytotwo||He grabbed him & put him in his kennel, what else can you do,the dog doesn't understand.|
|03-04-2014 11:39 AM|
|carmspack||what did your son do after the attacks|
|03-04-2014 11:34 AM|
I have seen him with others including children and other dogs, completely fine like I said this is something I really don't understand.. I have never encountered this before completely baffled.. We will see what the trainer says..
|03-04-2014 11:01 AM|
|LoveEcho||I agree with Carmen, I'm not at all convinced the dog is fine with others. Lots of signals being missed, probably.|
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