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05-18-2014 04:11 AM
BorderKelpie What a bittersweet thread.

I am sorry for your loss, I'm actually in tears here for you.

Prayers for strength and healing.
05-12-2014 08:46 PM
megansha Sending prayers your way, zivagirl. I am so sorry for your loss.
05-11-2014 11:36 PM
huntergreen op, very sorry for your loss.
05-11-2014 08:58 PM
misslesleedavis1 Im really sorry for your loss, sending good vibes and hugs

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05-11-2014 08:56 PM
LoveEcho I am so, so, indescribably sorry for your loss...I think that dogs feel things on a whole other level than we do- it sounds like that's what your darling girl has been going through. I hope the pain eases for you both in time
05-11-2014 07:38 PM
zivagirl "As for the peeing everywhere. ... Bethsheba was leaving "calling cards" for your husband, so if he was lost he could sniff his way back to you both. I know that sounds silly to us-----------but that is exactly the way it works in a dog's world. She was trying to tell your husband, "This is it, you are in the right place, stay right here." if he should happen by and sniff her urine."



Doesn't sound silly to me. I am deeply touched by this, actually.
05-11-2014 07:31 PM
zivagirl
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I get the feeling (and forgive me if I'm being presumptuous, intrusive etc) that you're looking back...that maybe you're seeing things you think you shouldn't have missed.

That's not the case, love...there's nothing you could've done. As they say, hindsight is always 20/20.

Do you have family support...? Or a support group...? Friends...?

If there's anything I can do, PM me...I don't know why, but I hurt for you...
Looking back is an inevitability. I know I didn't cause this, couldn't cure him, and couldn't change the outcome. For now, there is no sense of guilt outside of that which is brought on by the knowledge that I can and will go on living, and I will achieve more than mere survival.

And....you probably hurt for me because I have a tendency to throw my feelings outwards. . Thank-you for your kindness.
05-11-2014 06:27 PM
jang I am so deeply sorry for you..Did not know you were going through such a horrible time..mPlease trust in your personnal source of strength..Believe in yourself ....Should you find the need...this site is full of people who care for you...MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY ....
05-11-2014 06:19 PM
my boy diesel i am so sorry for your loss :'(
05-11-2014 06:14 PM
Harry and Lola Zivagirl I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you are coping with your loss.

It is interesting to hear about your girl's behaviour, they most definitely do have a 6th sense and know more about us then we do ourselves. Always listen to our dogs, they try and tell us so much.
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