You're right. Different breeders have different ideals. Explore more breeders and look for someone whose ideal type comes more to what you want. Not knocking anyone, but often the types of pups being bred for by some breeders are not what an active family needs or is looking for.
Csabre Sch1, Hexe Sch2, SG Bengal, Lynx, Komet, Kira HGH & Kougar v Wolfstraum ~ Ziberia IPO1 ~ ATB Basha, Kougar & Kyra, Fenja, Sch3s, Cito, Sch2, Danger RH & Alice Sch1s ~Kelsey