I can think of a few things, deaths of loved ones, illnesses, etc.. There are three events in my life that really stand out to me, and I can't seem to determine which was the most difficult, so I will post all three. One was when I was 15 and found out that I was pregnant. I had a very strict father and I was afraid of him. I went through my whole pregnancy, with the exception of my boyfriend, I didn't tell a soul that I was pregnant. I went into labor and had to tell my mother to take me to the hospital, and why I needed to go.
The second thing that stands out is having to call my mother, who was on vacation, that her brother and only family member left, had passed away suddenly.
The third thing, is I went through the last trimester of my third pregnancy in kidney failure, on the verge of death. After my son was born, it was discovered that my doctor had seriously messed up two of seven surgeries I had to keep me alive, and had no idea how to fix it. A radiologist from the hospital called my hubby and told him to get me out of there before that doctor killed me. I was sent the country's leading specialist to undergo two more surgeries to fix the damage done to me, all the while having no bonding time with my new son. I had serious postpartum psychosis due to this, and it took me years to recover from it all.
Chases Wolfgang Heinrich Von Ryan aka Wolfie born 12/20/09
Waiting for us at the bridge is Chases Chieftain aka Chiefy Left this earth and left a hole in our hearts July 2000