I just had to add this:
I did not mean to imply in ANY way that your fiance is a "bad guy." He's probably a great guy in many ways, since you appear to be a smart, young woman who wouldn't put up with a jerk.
"Good guy" or "bad guy," however, he lives in a society that screams that he's "too young" for a life-long commitment, and, honestly, considering how much he needs you, if he truly loved you, he would probably be jumping at the chance to marry you sooner.
Don't find yourself defending him for his good qualities in your mind. It's a very bad mistake to do so, and you can find yourself tied to him because of your loyalty to his good qualities and not to the whole person standing before you.
Best wishes to you.
Jo & Teddy,my female german shepherd, born Christmas Day, 2011
"One reason a dog is such a lovable creature is his tail wags instead of his tongue." - Unknown
Last edited by Jo_in_TX; 01-10-2013 at 03:36 PM.