My son's friend died - Page 2

Stevenzachsmom · 11-01-2012, 09:06 PM

Thanks again everyone. No one expects to lose a child. I'm glad the boys want to go to the memorial. This is a very close knit community and the least we can do is be supportive.

G-burg · 11-02-2012, 05:54 AM

Sending prayers of strength and courage to this young man's family and friends.. I know all to well the struggles they face and the challanges that lay ahead for them.. Definitely breaks my heart.

Losing a child is the worst.. Life as you know it will never ever be the same.

Peter. · 11-02-2012, 06:17 AM

So sorry to hear, this is terrible, I could not imagine losing one of my boys..

Wolfiesmom · 11-02-2012, 10:10 AM

I am so sorry. My good friend in high school was murdered freshman year by her boyfriend. That has never left me. I know how your son feels. A word of advice,if your son feels the need to go, let him go to all of the services for his friend if they are having them for his friend. My father would only let me go to the church service, and I had to fight him on that one, because he thought, at 13 years old, I was too young. I spent years wondering where my friend was buried. It really bothered me, and I finally found her when I was in my 30s. My condolences to you all.

elsie · 11-02-2012, 10:26 AM

Unexpressible sadness. Prayers for family, friends, classmates... for peace, and for healing.

My mom never "recovered"... she lived with bitterness and unforgiveness for many, many years. (My oldest brother was hit by a car at age 7, 2 yrs before I was born.)

Lilie · 11-02-2012, 10:29 AM

My prayers go out to this bright young man's family, friends and to all those he touched during his short time here on Earth.

Bear GSD · 11-02-2012, 11:32 AM

Wow, what a tragic loss. My heart goes out to you and to the boy's family. I couldn't even fathom outliving my child.

jang · 11-02-2012, 11:52 AM

Jan, i know your son is a very sensitive and caring boy..Just the thoughtfulness he and you showed to my dad when he was sick..In the card your son sent you could just feel how sweet he is..I will keep him and your family in my prayers..Also the family of the lost boy..such a terrible tragedy for all involved..jan

harmony · 11-04-2012, 02:12 AM

Heart breaking! It is hard enough to bury a parent but a child must be the worst thing in the world! I had a friend that buried her daughter a week before her 18th birthday, it was years ago. My heart truley is with the ones that lost the most...

harmony · 11-04-2012, 02:22 AM

I am so sorry for their loss

, you can almost replace a dog but never a child! So Sorry!!!

11-02-2012, 05:54 AM	#12 (permalink)
G-burg Crowned Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Maryland Posts: 5,872	Sending prayers of strength and courage to this young man's family and friends.. I know all to well the struggles they face and the challanges that lay ahead for them.. Definitely breaks my heart. Losing a child is the worst.. Life as you know it will never ever be the same. __________________ Leesa~ Chaos v. Wildhaus, SchH2, OB3 (HOT) ~ Bismark v. Wildhaus, SchH1, TR1 (HOT) ~ Kougar v. Wolfstraum~ pup in training...

11-02-2012, 10:10 AM	#14 (permalink)
Wolfiesmom Crowned Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 4,143	I am so sorry. My good friend in high school was murdered freshman year by her boyfriend. That has never left me. I know how your son feels. A word of advice,if your son feels the need to go, let him go to all of the services for his friend if they are having them for his friend. My father would only let me go to the church service, and I had to fight him on that one, because he thought, at 13 years old, I was too young. I spent years wondering where my friend was buried. It really bothered me, and I finally found her when I was in my 30s. My condolences to you all. __________________ Mom to Chases Wolfgang Heinrich Von Ryan aka Wolfie born 12/20/09 Waiting for us at the bridge is Chases Chieftain aka Chiefy Left this earth and left a hole in our hearts July 2000

11-02-2012, 10:26 AM	#15 (permalink)
elsie Crowned Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: pottstown pa Posts: 8,186	Unexpressible sadness. Prayers for family, friends, classmates... for peace, and for healing. My mom never "recovered"... she lived with bitterness and unforgiveness for many, many years. (My oldest brother was hit by a car at age 7, 2 yrs before I was born.) __________________ But the jar he was making did not turn out as he had hoped, so he crushed it into a lump of clay again and started over. ~ Jer. 18:4 http://elsieflynn.blogspot.com http://www.dogster.com/?41847

11-02-2012, 10:29 AM	#16 (permalink)
Lilie Crowned Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: South Texas Posts: 8,947	My prayers go out to this bright young man's family, friends and to all those he touched during his short time here on Earth. __________________ Hondo Von Dopplet L Bauernhof "Hondo"- GSD Lilie's Tug McGraw "Tug" - Golden Retriever Maggie - Mini Dachshund (Rescue) Lonestar - Texas Blue Lacy Funyon, Ashe, Soot - Barn Cats Scooter /1/2 Arabian, Shadow, Katie / APHA

11-02-2012, 11:32 AM	#17 (permalink)
Bear GSD Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Boulder, Colorado Posts: 1,930	Wow, what a tragic loss. My heart goes out to you and to the boy's family. I couldn't even fathom outliving my child. __________________ Bear GSD 10/16/11 Elsa GSD 12/23/03 - 11/10/11

11-01-2012, 09:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
Stevenzachsmom Knighted Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Maryland Posts: 3,358	Thanks again everyone. No one expects to lose a child. I'm glad the boys want to go to the memorial. This is a very close knit community and the least we can do is be supportive.

11-02-2012, 06:17 AM	#13 (permalink)
Peter. Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: West Bloomfield, MI Posts: 89	So sorry to hear, this is terrible, I could not imagine losing one of my boys..

11-02-2012, 11:52 AM	#18 (permalink)
jang Master Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: titusville, fl Posts: 814	Jan, i know your son is a very sensitive and caring boy..Just the thoughtfulness he and you showed to my dad when he was sick..In the card your son sent you could just feel how sweet he is..I will keep him and your family in my prayers..Also the family of the lost boy..such a terrible tragedy for all involved..jan __________________ Sibi- Zoe

11-04-2012, 02:12 AM	#19 (permalink)
harmony Knighted Member Join Date: May 2002 Location: USA Posts: 2,145	Heart breaking! It is hard enough to bury a parent but a child must be the worst thing in the world! I had a friend that buried her daughter a week before her 18th birthday, it was years ago. My heart truley is with the ones that lost the most...

11-04-2012, 02:22 AM	#20 (permalink)
harmony Knighted Member Join Date: May 2002 Location: USA Posts: 2,145	I am so sorry for their loss , you can almost replace a dog but never a child! So Sorry!!!

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