I am so sorry. My good friend in high school was murdered freshman year by her boyfriend. That has never left me. I know how your son feels. A word of advice,if your son feels the need to go, let him go to all of the services for his friend if they are having them for his friend. My father would only let me go to the church service, and I had to fight him on that one, because he thought, at 13 years old, I was too young. I spent years wondering where my friend was buried. It really bothered me, and I finally found her when I was in my 30s. My condolences to you all.
Chases Wolfgang Heinrich Von Ryan aka Wolfie born 12/20/09
Waiting for us at the bridge is Chases Chieftain aka Chiefy Left this earth and left a hole in our hearts July 2000