Ok, I am a man of a certain age group, generation, and upbringing. If you present me with a problem, I'm going to try and SOLVE it. Sorry, that's the way I was raised, and it's unlikely to change. I'm sure it might be frustrating, especially to the women in my life.
I make no apology, especially to someone who isn't one of those people. It is what it is. I'm not a "barefoot and pregnant, stay home with kids guy", but I'm also not a Mars/Venus guy, either.
Ok, vent/rant over, carry on with your Monday.
He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours faithful and true~ to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion. ~unknown