Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update

slaen · 11-28-2009, 01:53 PM

Thank you to everyones who gave me support and suggestions on what to do with my "ex" and our splitting up.

heres the update..

She is offically out of my house. My dog is safe and my house is now a bachelor pad. lol. I helped her move stuff out so it would go quicker and smoother, plus to keep things civil.

The jeep is in her name now and out of my life and so is she.
Its kinda rough being alone but at least I have Kai here to keep me company. I do however get random text messages from her saying the typical I love you, miss you, ya know, all the shoulda woulda couldas. Thats the beauty of hind sight right?

Thank you everyone for everything. Im starting to get over her and having fun again with friends. Although Thanksgiving was kinda hard, I spent it at home by myself and went to steak and shake for dinner by myself. Oh well

I have been jogging with Kai and I lost 30lbs in a month and a half!! I drastically switched my diet too. No more junk food or pop.
I know with Kai there and me being thin again it will be no time before I meet someone new that appreciates me.

You guys are great and I really appreciate the support you all gave me.

jaggirl47 · 11-28-2009, 02:00 PM

I'm glad to hear you are doing better. Thank goodness she's gone now! Kai looks great too. I saw your other post.

Mary Jane · 11-28-2009, 02:02 PM

It sounds like you have a lot to be thankful for, most of all the wisdom to recognize a situation that was bad for you.

Reading other posts here over the months, many single women have complained that (some) single men dislike their devotion to their pets. You sound like an ideal man for somebody out there.

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Originally Posted By: Slaen someone new that appreciates me.

is waiting to meet you.

FredD · 11-28-2009, 02:03 PM

Well, good for you Joe! I wondered what happened. Have not seen or heard from you. Take care.

LisaT · 11-28-2009, 02:29 PM

Great update, glad to hear all the positive changes

slaen · 11-28-2009, 02:31 PM

Hey Fred,

Sorry Its just been rough for the past few weeks.

But I will come out to let the boys run around.
Im gonna take him up to K9 right now and get him a bully stick and a new collar.

London's Mom · 11-28-2009, 02:48 PM

Way to go. And remember, take your time and don't jump into another relationship too soon. You've got plenty of time and you have Kai to keep you busy! Enjoy your new life!

GSDolch · 11-28-2009, 02:50 PM

Very glad that things stayed civil and she is out and you have no more worries! (well, from her anyways)

LisaT · 11-28-2009, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted By: London's MomWay to go. And remember, take your time and don't jump into another relationship too soon. You've got plenty of time and you have Kai to keep you busy! Enjoy your new life!

Very important advice! Be selfish for awhile

Phazewolf · 11-28-2009, 04:38 PM

As for the text messages why not block the number so you don't have to deal with it at all. Makes moving on so much quieter.

11-28-2009, 01:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
slaen Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Detroit, Michigan Posts: 281	Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update Thank you to everyones who gave me support and suggestions on what to do with my "ex" and our splitting up. heres the update.. She is offically out of my house. My dog is safe and my house is now a bachelor pad. lol. I helped her move stuff out so it would go quicker and smoother, plus to keep things civil. The jeep is in her name now and out of my life and so is she. Its kinda rough being alone but at least I have Kai here to keep me company. I do however get random text messages from her saying the typical I love you, miss you, ya know, all the shoulda woulda couldas. Thats the beauty of hind sight right? Thank you everyone for everything. Im starting to get over her and having fun again with friends. Although Thanksgiving was kinda hard, I spent it at home by myself and went to steak and shake for dinner by myself. Oh well I have been jogging with Kai and I lost 30lbs in a month and a half!! I drastically switched my diet too. No more junk food or pop. I know with Kai there and me being thin again it will be no time before I meet someone new that appreciates me. You guys are great and I really appreciate the support you all gave me. __________________ Proud Daddy to Kai 1 1/2 year old German Shepherd. Best dog ever.

11-28-2009, 02:00 PM	#2 (permalink)
jaggirl47 Knighted Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Washington Posts: 2,936	Re: Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update I'm glad to hear you are doing better. Thank goodness she's gone now! Kai looks great too. I saw your other post. __________________ SBD Posejpal's Leyna, HCTs Coming Soon: SBD Posejpal's Jagermeister...call name Zeus At the rainbow bridge: Zappa 12/27/2000-1/23/2012 You are my heart, my soul, and my best friend. You will be with me always.

11-28-2009, 02:03 PM	#4 (permalink)
FredD Master Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Michigan, USA Posts: 912	Re: Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update Well, good for you Joe! I wondered what happened. Have not seen or heard from you. Take care. __________________ Mikko-GSD- 2008 Wiley-GSD- 2009 "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass... It's about learning how to dance in the rain." (Author Unknown)

11-28-2009, 02:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
LisaT Crowned Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Northern CA Posts: 17,002	Re: Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update Great update, glad to hear all the positive changes __________________ K9 Tick Disease Information http://www.rabieschallengefund.org

11-28-2009, 02:31 PM	#6 (permalink)
slaen Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Detroit, Michigan Posts: 281	Re: Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update Hey Fred, Sorry Its just been rough for the past few weeks. But I will come out to let the boys run around. Im gonna take him up to K9 right now and get him a bully stick and a new collar. __________________ Proud Daddy to Kai 1 1/2 year old German Shepherd. Best dog ever.

11-28-2009, 02:48 PM	#7 (permalink)
London's Mom Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: New York Posts: 472	Re: Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update Way to go. And remember, take your time and don't jump into another relationship too soon. You've got plenty of time and you have Kai to keep you busy! Enjoy your new life! __________________ London's Mom --------------------------------------------- Minerva 9/1994 - 1/2009 Lugar 4/1997 - 2/2009 Olina 4/2009 - 2/2011 London 1/19/2009 - Emma 8/27/2010 -

11-28-2009, 02:50 PM	#8 (permalink)
GSDolch Crowned Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Loudon, TN Posts: 5,049	Re: Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update Very glad that things stayed civil and she is out and you have no more worries! (well, from her anyways) __________________ We are defined not only by what we create, but by what we refuse to destroy.

11-28-2009, 04:38 PM	#10 (permalink)
Phazewolf Master Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Sterling Heights, MI Posts: 642	Re: Ok so I am not fed up anymore The big Update As for the text messages why not block the number so you don't have to deal with it at all. Makes moving on so much quieter.

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