experienced GSD owner confused

[RebelGSD]

I am very sorry. What we can do, we can offer them a chance. It is very sad when they don't take it.

[shepherdmom]

Originally Posted by RebelGSD

I am very sorry. What we can do, we can offer them a chance. It is very sad when they don't take it.

Thank you. We are very sad it didn't work out. We will take a step back and try to decide if our old boy is happy being an only doggie. Maybe go back to our original plan of visiting Las Vegas rescue to see if we can find him a friend. Has anyone had any experience with them?

[CelticGlory]

How old is Buddy? If he's up there in age, I would seriously wait or at least take him with you so he could meet the dog(s) in question and decide for himself if he could tolerate another dog.

[shepherdmom]

Buddy is 9. Up until his brother died just before Thanksgiving he has always had other dogs around. He is very well socialized. He loves kids, people and other dogs. We think he is actually a lab in a shepherds body. LOL The last couple of years have been tough. We've lost several of our furry family due to old age and illness. Then his brother got sick and went downhill so fast.... Buddy is our last one and we had hoped having a friend for him would be a good thing, but obviously the little girl we brought home just didn't work, but don't think the problem was Buddy, but the dog we picked. Neither my husband and I had wanted to do the puppy thing right now so we thought a resuce dog might be the answer. But maybe not, maybe a puppy for him to herd around might be better.

[RebelGSD]

Marriqges break up sometimes, and people usually go into them with better knowledge of each other. This was not a good match, but there are plenty of nice girls out there that Buddy would love. Don't get discouracged. The 11 yo male of a friend of mine got totally rejuvenated when she adopted a 3yo male. The two of them play like puppies and the younger one is very respectful of the limitations of the older dog.

[shepherdmom]

Originally Posted by RebelGSD

Don't get discouracged. The 11 yo male of a friend of mine got totally rejuvenated when she adopted a 3yo male. The two of them play like puppies and the younger one is very respectful of the limitations of the older dog.

Thanks. We are not discouraged. Just taking a step back and trying to decided what is best for all of us. We feel like Buddy wants a friend. We just have to find the right friend for him that will work for us as well.

[RubyTuesday]

I'm glad the breeder took her back. Your approach to step back & take some time finding the right companion for yourselves & Buddy is a good one. IF you know of a decent local breeder, they are often terrific sources for wonderful adults, including young adults.

[Bismarck]

there is nothing wrong with getting a rescue dog. a good rescue will "require" you to bring your dog, and every family member to meet potentials.
who know's, a girl dog might not be what he wants. he may want a guy pal to hang with, you just have to find what he'll tolerate, and that's usually not young, energetic playful puppies, especially at his age.
contact a rescue, ask questions, explain your needs and wants, they should try and match you up with the best fit that they have.
if all else fails, make a road trip one weekend to san diego, as we have a big selection at our rescue.
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[shepherdmom]

Originally Posted by RubyTuesday

I'm glad the breeder took her back. Your approach to step back & take some time finding the right companion for yourselves & Buddy is a good one. IF you know of a decent local breeder, they are often terrific sources for wonderful adults, including young adults.

Unfortunately I don't know anyone local. There is not even a rescue in my area. (Northern Nevada). I did contact two California Rescues who are both willing to work with me. I filled out all the paperwork and am waiting to hear back.

[shepherdmom]

Originally Posted by Bismarck

there is nothing wrong with getting a rescue dog. a good rescue will "require" you to bring your dog, and every family member to meet potentials.
who know's, a girl dog might not be what he wants. he may want a guy pal to hang with, you just have to find what he'll tolerate, and that's usually not young, energetic playful puppies, especially at his age.
contact a rescue, ask questions, explain your needs and wants, they should try and match you up with the best fit that they have.
if all else fails, make a road trip one weekend to san diego, as we have a big selection at our rescue.
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I have contacted two Northern California Rescues who seem to be somewhat close. (Well within a day's drive anyway) and started paperwork. Buddy is a sweeheart. He loves everyone. His brother and other dogs through the years that have passed away were always in charge. He has never even lifted his leg to pee, he is so not dominate that I worry about an older dog bullying him. The last time I took him to the vet there was an agressive toy poodle in the waiting room and he kept inching further and further away and closer to me, he had no interest in taking it on. He is total 94 lbs of mush. I think he would be fine with any dog that was playful and non agressive. Gosh I wish San Diego was closer! I would love to have someone help us match up with a good fit. Hopefully the rescues I contacted will be able to help. I really don't care if it is a puppy or an older dog just so long as it can be part of our family.