Good luck convincing her she is not a lap dog! My Athena is 1 yr. old and is still very much a lap dog! They are beautiful both of them. About their weight if you can feel their ribs (not see but feel), they are a healthy weight. You want to keep puppy's lean and have a bit of a tuck in their tummies. Both your pups look great to me!
Athena- Long Coat GSD -CGC
Sinister Black- GSD- AKC S.T.A.R. puppy