I'm not against talking to the vet to see if we can work this out. I may not have given enough information in my post before. Yesterday wasn't the first time she has seen Ivan, it was just the first time she has seen him in 3 or 4 months. She has done everything from his first vet check when I got him to his pulled muscle from a failed superman attempt.
I guess I'm just afraid that if she is afraid of large dogs, if I ever had to bring one of the boys in for an emergency that the situation could be harmful to their socialization. I try to take them around people who think they are as great as I do, lol. I could be just overthinking this though. Was just really surprised at her reaction.