Don't allow your kids to interact with the dog. Don't bring the kids or ask to meet where their dog cannot accompany. It's not your dog and it's not worth getting into an argument over. If she notices and asks say that you're just not comfortable with the growling around your children and leave it at that. Meanwhile, delight in your awesome dog and stop comparing.
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