this is a very bad start to a very important relationship. not a good sign. you'll have to follow your heart/intuition on this one, but it sounds like the bond of trust is broken.
mom to seraphina blue & the cashman
miss jeni-take-a-ride, rescued 7/07
shangri la's great white caesar, rescued 4/09
hearthside's cinderfella (RIP 4/20/09)
shep von bellefontaine (RIP 6/9/10)
voodoo lily (dsh) & cricket (african grey~RIP 7/13)