i also feel that making her lay and tolerate behavior that she obviously doesn't like is not a good thing to do, and could be dangerous and/or set her up for failure. please be careful, and change your son's behavior until you find out more about what's going on.
mom to seraphina blue & the cashman
miss jeni-take-a-ride, rescued 7/07
shangri la's great white caesar, rescued 4/09
hearthside's cinderfella (RIP 4/20/09)
shep von bellefontaine (RIP 6/9/10)
voodoo lily (dsh) & cricket (african grey)