Originally Posted by Jwrobinett
We have an agreement that I will be the only one to train and feed him but when I am gone durning the nights she is free to play as she pleases. With permission. My question is who will the GSD this is his master?
She has to ask your permission to play with the dog?
I hate to break it to you, but there's no way to predict who the dog will bond with more strongly, or who it will obey better. You can try to control the situation all you want, but in the end, it's the dog that will decide. If you want to get her a dog (or get you a dog that lives with her instead of you? I'm a little confused by this arrangement), get her a dog, with the understanding that you can't control everything.