And you will also encounter very sensitive, takes-offense-to-everything, posters. It's the Internet. Lots of people, with lots of tones, experiences, and sometimes not enough time to figure out how best to word something for the specific OP's personality. I tend to probably be on the "harsher" side, and I tend to think a lot of the time someone needs to grow a little thicker skin. I mean, you can't even swear on this forum. Try joining a parenting forum. Actually don't, people who get offended and storm off from here would get eaten alive on some of the forums with less rules. Don't worry about it, it's the Internet with people that can get bolder behind a key board than they work in real life. Let it roll off.