Originally Posted by WendyM
I don't know what NLP means, but I'm well aware that we've made a huge mistake and we're doing our dog a disservice, which makes me feel awful. I don't know if it would be better to rehome her and try to give her a life more suitable for her or if we just keep trying harder to do more for her. Both options make me feel like throwing up constantly. But right now, today, she is my dog and I want to do the best I can for her.
I don't think you read what I asked properly because I had a typo in it.
Here it is again a little differently: you got the dog for a reason. And having gotten the dog you're discovering something and the question I'm asking you is if your current life style isn't good for the dog, why do you believe that your life style is good for *you*?