I would stop him from coming over and my boyfriend knows I don't want him over anymore so his solution was to invite him over when I go to work overnight. Doesn't solve anything, just makes me stress out about what he's doing to my animals while I'm trying to work. I have gotten mean before, even other friends have made some rude comments, he just ignores us. Crates are my last option, and if he has to come over then he will not have access to my animals anymore. I am sick of being disrespected in my own house!
I have talked to my boyfriend about it, he just agrees with me and shrugs, says that's the way he is not much to do about it. I would have us meet somewhere else if he would actually give us notice before coming over, 9 times out of 10 he just shows up. -_-
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