So she spent the night in her bed right next to my side of the bed. We have changed our philosophy, and we have sectioned out a room for her to stay in while we are at work, we tested it today for about 2 hours and she didn't do anything bad, the real test will be Monday when I head back to work. Here's to fingers crossed.
If she can't be trusted I'll have to go with an all metal cage that won't be so easy to break. We shall see.