Our kids have moved out. They were never over-scheduled so I remained sane and I had time for my passion (dogs!!). As a result I was not an overstressed parent. Today it seems like parents are mainly cab drivers instead of parents. And the family dog living in the back yard or crated.
I don't understand why kids have to be in more than one structured activity any ways. There is too much peer pressure on nowadays parents.
To know if you are doing things right, you should be willing to trade places with your dog.