Originally Posted by shepherdmom
To answer your question, I think yes you are being a little unreasonable. You are wanting to move the wedding up by a year. You are putting an ultimatum out there. If you want it in October you should be pushing it back to next October not moving it up.
It's not a year, it's 3 months. Oct 2013 - Jan 2014.
I think some soul searching is in order. Not knowing either of you or relationship, can't really comment but to me, it's a red flag.