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Old 08-16-2010, 07:16 AM   #22 (permalink)
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I am pretty upset by some of these comments, judging Baxter's owner, so I'm going to present a brutally honest, blunt, but different perspective.

Maybe I saw a different video, but the Baxter I saw was a clean, very beloved, and very well cared for dog. His entire life was spent bringing joy to people, not with physical mobility but with a certain presence which was soothing and comforting.

Who is to say that the dog no longer had quality of life? Who is to say the dog no longer wanted to live? Perhaps his sadness or depression is your own emotion being projected on to the dog. In fact, some people may really think they are doggie psychics. If I were to play psychic, I am thinking Baxter would say, "excuse me, but I like being alive and doing what I do. If that bothers you and you need to kill something to make you feel better, tell the vet to stick the needle in your heart and you can go and wait at the Bridge. I'd rather stick around, thank you very much."

More and more pet owners use doggie hospice with pain management as the preferred end of life treatment for their dogs, not killing them a.k.a. euthanizing them. I for one do not think anyone has the right to judge. I've had one GSD go peacefully on his own and one GSD that I had killed by the vet ("euthanized" if you find the word "kill" too blunt). The preference, if I had the means, would be doggie hospice, not killing the dog. Even though the GSD that I killed had cancer, I am still not completely and totally at peace with "euthanization" being my only option because I could not provide the dog with different end of life care.

And although the "Bridge" gives people a spiritual framework for feeling better about killing their dog, not everyone believes in the Bridge, or an afterlife, or is even positive that what they did to their dog was the right thing. So, I say, for those folks who cannot live with euthanization, and do not really think it is what was best for the dog, I say cut them some slack.

Remember that Baxter's mom is a hospice worker, dealing with folks that some would like to see get the needle as well and sent to the human version of the Bridge so that we don't have to see them suffer any more. However, it is understandable that if she doesn't believe in euthanization for humans, she may not have wanted that for Baxter either. As I said, we don't have a right to judge her. In the end, she is the one living with Baxter being gone now.
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