My breeder said that Kofi was one of the more independent ones from the litter and when I went to see him at 5 weeks and again at 7, he wasn't really interested in me...
When I bought him home and held him for more than a nano second he screamed blue murder for me to let him go. I have to say I was worried that he wouldn't be a really cuddly 'into me' dog.
But he is 17 weeks old now and has really bonded very well. He is confident (so doesn't panic if I go out of sight) but he is not what I would call independent. On a walk he never goes more than a few meters away from me and he comes first time when i call and is always focused on me. I am super pleased with him, and he likes nothing more than snuggling up and cuddling too.
So, I understand your concerns, but from my experience it seems to have turned out ok. As others have said, you are not currently part of his pack and if he is happy to leave his pack to come greet strangers, might that also be the type of dog who will be happy to run off and leave you to go greet some other dogs/people? I know I would prefer a dog who wants to stay with his pack.
